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Monday, March 01, 2010

Bulgaria Closing All Orphanages

In radical attempt to fix its child-care system, the Bulgarian government has announced plans to shut down all of its orphanages and homes for disabled children.

Citing past failed attempts to create real change in the current system, the government has set a 15-year deadline for scrapping the old and starting anew.

"According to a new strategy paper approved by the cabinet on Wednesday, the country's 137 communist-era welfare homes for orphans and disabled children will be closed down," the Independent News & Media has reported. "The more than 7 500 children living in such homes will be placed in foster families or adopted to help better integrate them into society."

The government says lack of funding, and lack of "political will" has kept all but the most cosmetic changes from being made at orphanages and group homes. The new plan would give top priority to placing the more than 1,300 disabled children who are currently wards of the state.

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Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Farrow Criticizes Illicit Adoptions of Haitian Youth

Mia Farrow, who serves a UNICEF goodwill ambassador, has spoken out against illegal adoptions that have occurred in the aftermath of the devastating earthquake in Haiti.

A Feb. 4 Associated Press highlighted Farrow's criticisms:
The U.S. actress says groups or individuals who want to help Haiti's children should rather support orphanages or their families inside the country.

Farrow, who herself has adopted 11 children, says offering parents a better life for their children elsewhere is "completely unacceptable and immoral."

Adoption practices in Haiti are in the spotlight since a group of American missionaries was caught trying to smuggle Haitian children out of the country in the wake of the Jan. 12 quake.

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Monday, February 08, 2010

After Years of Sponsoring Children, Air Force Family Opts to Adopt

With the U.S. Air Force's "Year of the Air Force Family" barely more than a month old, one USAF family has taken the opportunity to expand through adoption. Chief Master Sgt. Sean Stevenson of Air Force News reported the story in a Feb. 8 article:
Col. John Marselus, the 607th Air and Space Operations Center commander, and his wife, Kim, traveled to Addis Adaba, Ethiopia, in January where they picked up their newest son Caleb, a 5-year-old orphan whom they had just adopted.

"The adoption process took about two years, but in reality this journey started well over two decades ago," Colonel Marselus said. Their trip to Ethiopia opened yet another opportunity; the opportunity to meet face-to-face with one of the many children they had sponsored worldwide for almost three decades. ...

After 25 years of sponsorship of multiple children, the Marselus family decided it was time to have an even greater impact on a needy child. It was at that point they decided to pursue the option of adoption.

"Sponsoring needy children ... is great, but we were convicted to see if there was a child who needed a family," Colonel Marselus said. "We strongly felt that the right thing to do was provide an orphaned little boy or girl the love and nurturing they so desperately deserve."

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Thursday, February 04, 2010

MSNBC Answers Questions about Haitian Adoptions

The devastation caused by the earthquake in Haiti has prompted many good-hearted people to inquire about adopting children who were orphaned in the disaster. It also left many adoptions in limbo, as the Haitian government tried to sort itself out.

On Feb. 1, MSNBC ran a special feature aimed at addressing some of the more common concerns, such as the following question:
Are there any new adoptions being started for children who were already orphaned or children newly orphaned in Haiti?

Reputable adoption agencies would tell you that neither the State Department nor Haiti’s government are considering new adoption applications at this time. Their primary concern is the safety of children who may have been separated from surviving relatives and need time to be reunited with extended family.
Only adoptions that were already in process will be completed. Neither the U.S. State Department nor the Haitian government has publicly speculated about when new adoptions can be initiated.

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Friday, January 29, 2010

Adoptees of Color Roundtable Calls for Stoppage of Adoptions from Haiti

An international organization known as the Adoptees of Color Roundtable has issued a statement calling for a stoppage on adoptions from Haiti and a refocused effort on connecting children with their families and providing all necessary aid to help Haitians rebuild after the recent earthquake that devastated their nation.

The following are excerpts from this statement:
We are a community of scholars, activists, professors, artists, lawyers, social workers and health care workers who speak with the knowledge that North Americans and Europeans are lining up to adopt the "orphaned children" of the Haitian earthquake, and who feel compelled to voice our opinion about what it means to be "saved" or "rescued" through adoption."

We understand that in a time of crisis there is a tendency to want to act quickly to support those considered the most vulnerable and directly affected, including children. However, we urge caution in determining how best to help. ...

For more than fifty years "orphaned children" have been shipped from areas of war, natural disasters, and poverty to supposedly better lives in Europe and North America. ... Like us, these "disaster orphans" will grow into adulthood and begin to grasp the magnitude of the abuse, fraud, negligence, suffering, and deprivation of human rights involved in their displacements. ...

As adoptees of color we bear a unique understanding of the trauma, and the sense of loss and abandonment that are part of the adoptee experience, and we demand that our voices be heard. All adoptions from Haiti must be stopped and all efforts to help children be refocused on giving aid to organizations working toward family reunification and caring for children in their own communities.

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Thursday, January 28, 2010

Transport of Haitian Orphans Slows Significantly

The Haitian government has dramatically slowed its transportation of Haitian orphans to the U.S., amid fears that undocumented children may be victims of human trafficking.
"Haiti's prime minister, Jean-Max Bellerive, told the Miami Herald his government has considerable fears that children may be scooped up in the streets of Port-au-Prince by nongovernmental organizations. The government also has concerns that children may be trafficked into prostitution or slavery." [Source: The Palm Beach Post]
Lawyers and adoption agencies have been working around the clock to finalize paperwork on as many children as possible, the Post reported. Most agencies are also re-processing paperwork for potential adoptive parents, including a background check, to ensure they are legitimate.

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Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Experts Predict Long Wait for Haiti Adoptions

As images of a devastated Haiti flood into the U.S., telephone calls are flooding into adoption agencies. But homes and families weren't the only things ruined by the earthquake, as KATU.com writers Susan Harding and Meghan Kalkstein reported in a Jan. 26 article:
Even before the earthquake, Haiti was considered one of the most challenging countries for adoption because of red tape and an unstable and corrupt government. ...

Adoption agency officials say people who are now flooding local agencies with calls may not have any idea what obstacles they'll encounter.

“No one right now is accepting applications for adoptions because of the collapse of the (Haitian) government," said Hollen Frazier of All God's Children International.

She said she believes it will be a year before Haiti will begin to allow adoptions again and then the wait may be up to three years.

"I would just encourage people to keep the orphan in their foresight with the understanding we have orphans throughout the entire world," she said.

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Thursday, January 21, 2010

Chicago Agency Promotes Adoption of HIV+ Children

Margaret Fleming is a 73-year-old single mother of 12 children and a passionate adoption advocate. She is also the driving force behind an effort to ensure that HIV-positive children find loving homes.

A Jan. 6 Chicago Tribune article by Jennifer Grant provided the following insights into Fleming's work on behalf of HIV-positive children throughout the world:
Fleming is the founder of Adoption-Link Inc., an agency in Oak Park [Illinois] through which she has placed hundreds of children since 1992. During a 2002 visit to Vietnam to meet her now-9-year-old daughter, her eyes were opened to the crisis of children and HIV.

She returned to the U.S. and established Chances by Choice, a program that helps place children born with HIV.

To date, close to 60 such children have found adoptive families.

According to a UNICEF report, about 370,000 children younger than 15 around the world became infected with HIV in 2007. Most infections occur during birth or through breast-feeding. Many of these children are orphaned when their parents die of AIDS.

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Sunday, January 17, 2010

Haiti Quake Puts Adoption Dreams in Limbo

Jill Lear and Kim Lewen both have rooms ready and waiting for children who may not occupy them for months. Both women have been in the process of adopting children from Haiti, which was devastated by a magnitude 7.0 earthquake Jan. 12.
"Though both know their children are safe ... what they don't know is when they'll be able to proceed with their dream of bringing the children to the United States. They fear for their children's safety in the days to come, and that their months-long effort to adopt the children could be stalled by the chaos." (Source: The Associated Press)
Dozens of families have been left in limbo, worried not only about the safety of their adopted children, but also about the paperwork which often takes months to sort out and may now be buried underneath the rubble. On Jan. 14, adoption advocates gathered on Capitol Hill to determine the best way forward.

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Thursday, January 07, 2010

Immigration Nightmare Rooted in Adoption Missteps

Robin Whiteley spent another holiday season away from his family this year.

When Whiteley was just a day old, a midwife gave him to Lora and Royce Whiteley who formally adopted him six years later. Today, Robin is 35-years-old, has a family of his own, and neither the United States, nor Mexico, has a record of his birth.

The Ft. Worth Star-Telegram provided the following information about Whiteley's ordeal:
Lacking a birth certificate and naturalization papers, Whiteley, who doesn’t speak Spanish, was deported to Mexico on the assumption that it was his country of origin. …

The laws on migration and foreign adoptions are complicated, said Heidi Cox, executive vice president and general counsel for the Gladney Center in Forth Worth... "Your Texas adoption will establish that you are the parent, but not that the child is a citizen,’ she said."
Because Whiteley doesn’t have proper documentation in Mexico either, he can’t work. His wife and children have moved to the Rio Grande Valley to be closer to him. the Star-Telegram reported.

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Tuesday, December 22, 2009

International Adoption by U.S. Parents Hits 13-year Low

The number of foreign children adopted by Americans fell to a 15-year low, according to the U.S. State Department.
"Big declines were recorded for all three countries that provided the most adopted children in the previous fiscal year. In China and Russia, government officials have been trying to promote domestic adoptions, while in Guatemala, a once-bustling but highly corrupt international adoption industry was shut down while reforms are implemented." [Source: The Associated Press]
Thomas DiFilipo, president of the Joint Council on International Children's Services predicted that adoptions in 2010 would fall as well.

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Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Australian Families Devastated as International Adoption Program Halted

Australians who have been waiting to adopt children from Ethiopia have received devastating news that the Australian government is suspending the program.

A Dec. 9 article by Barbara Miller of Australia's ABC News provided the following details:
The Federal Attorney-General has put the adoption program on hold because of concerns over a request from Ethiopia that Australia enter into a formal aid agreement as part of the arrangement.

Adoption agencies and prospective parents say they and hundreds of children have been left in limbo for no good reason and they are calling for the suspension to be lifted.

In the past 10 years more than 450 Ethiopian children have been adopted to Australia and many more families are interested in adopting an Ethiopian child. ...

Teacher Alex Grieve and her husband Rod have been going through the adoption program for six years. About 16 months ago their application was finally sent to Ethiopia to be matched with a child.

But then came the news that the Australian Government had suspended the adoption program. ...

Ms Grieve says she is devastated by the news.

"It's been pretty crushing, pretty hard. This is our only option to become parents," she said.

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Monday, December 14, 2009

Chicago Family's Story Calls Attention to HIV+ Adoptions

By all accounts, Terri Smith and Brad Roback's Chicago-area home looks normal enough; a barking dog, an 18-month-old toddler (named Sachi), family portraits and organized chaos. But closer inspection reveals a key difference between this and many other households – a cluster of syringes and bottles on the kitchen counter.

Sachi, who is just under two years old, is HIV positive. She contracted the virus from her birth mother, a sex worker in India.

Writer Leslie Goldman wrote about Sachi's adoptive family -- and the plight of the many other HIV+ children who are still waiting for families of their own -- in a Dec. 1 Huffington Post article:
Families like Brad, Terri, and Sachi are helping to bring about that much-needed transformation. They're part of a small but growing group of would-be parents looking to bring a child into their homes and lives. Coupled with the increasing manageability of HIV in areas with access to medical care, children like Sachi are finding homes ... and thriving.

I recently had the pleasure of interviewing them for a story in Parenting magazine, "An HIV Adoption Story" (December 2009 issue.) While no hard numbers exist for HIV adoption, the field is growing by "leaps and bounds," Erin Henderson, the coordinator for HIV-positive kids at Adoption Advocates International in Port Angeles, WA, told me.

In 2005, AAI helped two HIV-positive Ethiopian children come to the U.S.; in October 2009, the agency had 45 such adoptions in process or completed.

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Wednesday, December 09, 2009

Do International Adoptions Offer Greater Peace of Mind for Parents?

A Kentucky couple’s adoption of a Nepalese infant has prompted some discussion about the risks and benefits of domestic and international adoptions.

According to a Dec. 4 article on the website iSurfHopkins.com, the couple chose to adopt internationally because they were worried about the risks associated with domestic adoption:
According to Tara Whitmer, the couple has spent a considerable amount of time attempting to find local adoption possibilities, but discovered in many local private adoptions there were no guarantees. The Whitmers were concerned that there might be a chance that the estranged parents of orphaned children would come back and attempt to regain custody. The uncertainty of the possibilities frightened the couple.

iSurf news contacted Jenny Morin of the Department of Community Based Services (DCBS) in Hopkins County concerning the risks of adoption. Mrs. Morin stated that she understood the Whitmer's concerns regarding adoption, but for the birth-parents to simply change their minds was not sufficient reason for any Kentucky court to appeal and adoption.

"There are truly no guarantees," said Morin. "Three out of four private adoptions fall through because the birth parents change their minds at the last minute, prior to termination of parental rights. Once an adoption is finalized, however, it his highly unlikely that the decision will be overturned."

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Friday, November 06, 2009

Writer Advises Adoptive Parents Not to Neglect Child's Birth Culture

Trans-racial adoptions, especially Caucasian families adopting African-American children, are becoming increasingly common in the United States. In an Oct. 21 article on Examiner.com, writer Maritza Brown advised adoptive parents on ways to incorporate aspects of the child's birth culture into their family:
Since all ethnic groups maintain their own unique culture and mannerisms, it is imperative that the adopting parents not only learn their adopted child’s way of living, but they have to be willing to incorporate the child’s culture into their lives as well as appreciate and respect it. ...

The adopting parents have to venture out of their own comfort zone to meet and befriend others who look like and can identify with the adopted child. ... The child should always have access to an environment where there are people he/she can relate to and form a strong sense of self.

Needless to say that there is an added responsibility when adopting outside of one’s own race. That is why, it is imperative for the adopting parents to be prepared to embrace fully, the cultural lifestyle of the child they intend to add to their family in order to ensure the positive, well-adjusted growth of the child.

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Wednesday, November 04, 2009

Unique Adoption Plan Helps Keep Babies Out of Care System

The United Kingdom children’s charity Coram has pioneered a unique adoption system designed to help at-risk women and their children. Called “concurrent planning,” the plan places newborns with a potential adoptive family within days of the birth, while providing the birth mother with the support she needs.

A Nov. 2 article on the British news website TimesOnline provided the following details about the effort:
Concurrent planning runs for up to one year, during which the baby is cared for by the adoptive family while the natural mother is given a chance to turn her life around and show she could look after the child.

Unusually, the prospective adoptive parents agree regularly to bring the baby to see the mother up to five times a week so that the relationship can be maintained.

The charity offers the mother intensive support during this time to give her the best possible chance to sort out her problems. At the end of the year, if social workers judge she still poses a risk to the child, the adoption goes ahead immediately.

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Monday, October 26, 2009

In Japan, Adoption Process Involves Unique Complexities

In America, adoption is widely accepted, and commonly celebrated. But in Japan, issues such as tradition, family name, and inheritance often make adoption more about practicality than anything else.

Writer Matt Holland explored the challenges facing adoptive parents and children in Japan in his Oct. 21 article on the website Global Voices Online:
There are presently a number of conflicting forces at play: a disapproval of adoption from those valuing past norms, yet many of these people are the ones adopting heirs into their family near the end of their lives. This negative viewpoint also clashes with the many younger families who are seeking to adopt, rejecting past ideals and placing the importance on their present family.
International adoptions involving Japanese children can be just as challenging. In 2008, a combination of obstacles meant that just 35 families from the United States adopted Japanese children. The Japanese government says changes are being made, Holland reported -- but the changes are happening slowly, while thousands of children wait for permanent homes.

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Friday, October 23, 2009

Adoption Paperwork Problems May Send Teen Back to Vietnam

The Hallahan family thought they had done everything right. Pat and Sharon knew that their adoption of Dang Quang Tran had to be finalized before he turned 16, and their lawyer told them it was.

But according to an article in the Delano (MN) Herald Journal paperwork discrepancies threaten the Hallahan's family and their son's ability to remain in the United States:
Now, looking back, there were some red flags that made Pat and Sharon concerned about the adoption, according to Pat. One of them was when they received Tran’s birth certificate saying he was adopted, ‘but at the bottom, it said, “this is not proof of citizenship,”’ Pat said.
It wasn’t until the Hallahan’s filed Tran’s citizenship papers that they found out his adoption hadn’t been completed until after he was 16, the Herald-Journal reported. Pat and Sharon have contacted their senator, who has recommended an immigration attorney and is now helping walk the process through the proper channels.

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Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Adoptive Mom Worried About Abuses in Chinese System

According to a Sept. 25 article by Richard Foot of Canwest News Service, a Canadian mother is worried that her adopted daughter may have been kidnapped from her birth parents:
"I'm very, very scared," says Cathy Wagner, who wants the federal government to stop all Canadian adoptions from China until fears about the true origins of orphans there can be properly investigated.

This week the Los Angeles Times published explosive evidence that Chinese babies, particularly those in rural villages, had been kidnapped from their parents and sold to orphanages by corrupt adoption officials cashing in on the vast sums of money made available by the foreign demand for Chinese children.

The newspaper also said local authorities had tricked or coerced Chinese families into giving up newborns for adoption, only to sell those children to orphanages.

The paper quoted parents in the provinces of Guizhou and Hunan who said their babies had been stolen, sold, and adopted overseas in recent years.
Officials from the Chinese Center for Adoption Affairs have told foreign diplomats that, while there have been abuses in the past, they no longer occur, Foot reported.

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Thursday, October 01, 2009

Chinese Parents Allege Government Officials Coerced Adoptions

Some parents in China are making claims that their infant children (mostly daughters) were forcibly taken from them and placed for adoption with foreign families. The Boston Globe reports that the claims are fueling speculation about the legitimacy of some adoptions.

A Sept. 30 article on the Medical News Today reported the following:
The ‘conventional wisdom’ is that the infants, mostly girls, were abandoned by their parents because of China’s one-child policy and a cultural preference for boys, the Globe reports.

Although this is likely true for tens of thousands of the adoptions, some Chinese say that government officials took their children by coercion, fraud or kidnapping to collect money from orphanages.
The Chinese Center for Adoption Affairs declined to comment on the allegations, Medical News Today reported.

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Friday, September 25, 2009

Advocates Question Whether Urugruay Law Will Allow Same-Sex Couples to Adopt

A law that has been promoted by Uruguay's gay rights groups may not actually allow same-sex couples to adopt. According to a Sept. 15 article by Associated Press writer Raul O. Garces, thelaw -- which is currently awaiting President Tabare Vazquez's signature --does not directly address the rights of gay or lesbian couples:
[G]ay rights groups have been celebrating the prospect that Uruguay could become the first country in Latin America to give gay and lesbian couples the opportunity to adopt.

But nowhere in the law does it specifically say that homosexual couples have a right to adopt. And in some places, it suggests otherwise - for example by specifying how the child should take a mother and father's surnames.

Lawyers, judges and even the law's own authors now have doubts about how the law will be applied.
Though many are questioning the ability of the law to provide for same-sex adoption, the bill's author said that it will accomplish just that, Garces reported:
Deputy Margarita Percovich, who wrote the law, acknowledged that it doesn't directly mention same-sex adoptions, but said it would enable them because gays and lesbians already can legally form civil unions, and "the law enables couples in civil unions to adopt children without impediment."

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Friday, September 18, 2009

Ukraine Denies Superstar Singer's Adoption Request

Elton John has experienced a setback in his efforts to adopt an HIV-positive youngster from Ukraine. According to a Sept. 14 article in the British newspaper The Sun, Ukranian officials have cited the singer's age and sexual orientation as reasons for denying the adoption:
Elton John faces a legal battle over his dream to adopt a Ukrainian tot -- because the country bans gay couples from doing so.

The superstar [age 62] and partner David Furnish, 46, are also deemed too old under national laws.

Their only hope would be a presidential dispensation to take home 14-month-old Lev - after 62-year-old Elton declared at the weekend: "He has stolen my heart."

It was also revealed that if Ukrainian President Viktor Yushchenko were to grant their wish the pair would have to adopt Lev's brother as well. He too is in care -- and Ukrainian law states siblings must be adopted together.

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Wednesday, September 09, 2009

South African Official Encourages Adoption

The South African Minister of Social Development is encouraging people to consider adoption. As the number of children orphaned by AIDS continues to increase, the need for loving, permanent homes increases, too.

The website of South Africa's Bush Radio 89.5 provided the following details about the minister's adoption appeal:
  • KwaZulu Natal, Eastern Cape and Gauteng have the largest number of vulnerable children and with an estimated 1.5 million orphans in South Africa
  • The number of vulnerable children is expected to reach two million by 2010.
  • Minister of Social Development Edna Molewa said that the economic downturn has resulted in dramatic increases in cases of child abandonment, with the majority of children becoming vulnerable to poverty.
A general lack of information, combined with lengthy court proceedings, has led to a decrease in adoption, the radio station's website reported. As of July, 2009, more than 500,000 South African children were living in foster care.

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Wednesday, September 02, 2009

British Agency Hosting Adoption Parties to Help Find Homes for Hard-to-Place Youth

The British Association for Adoption and Fostering (BAAF) has announced that it will be hosting "adoption parties" in an effort to connect would-be adoptive parents with children from traditionally hard-to-place demographic groups.

Amelia Hill of The Guardian reported on the controversial effort in an Aug. 30 article:
The agency hopes that the controversial events will increase the chances of finding homes for young people repeatedly passed over by potential adoptive parents, such as those aged over five, sibling groups, children of black and minority ethnic origin, and those with mental and physical disabilities.

"This is not just about putting some jelly and ice-cream in a parish hall and inviting everyone along," [said Mo O'Reilly, director of child placement for the BAAF]. "We are going to hold these parties professionally and in the best way that we know how, and we are pretty optimistic that these parties could be a success."

About 10 families and 20 children will be invited to each event, which will take the form of a children's party, hosted in community centres by the prospective parents themselves, who will organise group games and one-to-one activities.

There will be no prior matching between children and adults, but the families invited will have expressed interest in the "type" of children present. The BAAF hopes that at least two children will find a new family at each event.
Sue Cotton, who heads the British charity Action for Children, told The Guardian that she was concerned about the effect that the parties will have on children who attend but do not end up being adopted. However, she did acknowledge that new ideas are needed in the effort to place more children in adoptive homes.

"Children who know that families are being sought for them will always risk feeling rejection, but meeting the adults at the party will make the letdown even stronger," she said. "We can't welcome this idea because we don't know the effect on the children. But it is clear that staying as we are is not an option."

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Friday, August 21, 2009

'Unadoptable' Chinese Girl Begins New Life with Adoptive Family in Georgia

A Chinese orphan who was born with a disfiguring growth on her face called a Hemangioma has a new home and a new life in Georgia thanks to the concerted efforts of a nurse from the U.S. and an adoptive mother.

Reporter Jaime Dailey of Savannah's WTOC 11 provided the following details about the obstacle-laden international adoption:
It all started about two years ago when a nurse from Beaufort went to work at a Chinese orphanage for a few weeks. She saw baby Emma and knew she had some medical issues that needed addressing and made it her mission to help Emma get the treatment she needed with the hopes of giving her a better life. ...

"She was being put aside as a baby that was essentially going to die if not taken care of or at least grown up in an orphanage being kind of the rejected one," said Beaufort nurse, Mariah ByWater. ...

"She was deemed unadoptable because of her Hemangioma and so her paperwork was not even processed. She wasn't even in the system, adoption system," said [Emma's eventual adoptive mother, Colleen] Brant.
Emma officially became a member of the Brant family in May.

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Wednesday, August 19, 2009

After Agency Folds, Canadian Couple Works to Finalize Ethiopian Adoption

A couple whose adoption hopes had been dashed when the company they were working with went bankrupt is headed to Ethiopia to pick up their adopted son. Jodi and Joel Thurmeier leave this week, thanks to help from immigration officials and a lawyer.

"Ontario-based Kids Link, which operates Imagine Adoption, went belly-up last month when the Thurmeiers were close to the end of their process," The Calgary Sun reported. "The couple, who also have a five-year-old daughter and four-year-old son, are scheduled to fly home Aug. 25 with their new baby in their arms."

The Thurmeiers told the Sun that they are excited, but are trying to prepare themselves for any outcome. They are told that their baby’s visa could be ready by the time they arrive in Ethiopia on Wednesday. "It’s going to be a whirlwind," Jodi Thurmeier said.

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Friday, August 14, 2009

U.S. TB Policy Disrupts International Adoptions

A new directive from the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) has angered proponents of international adoption. The directive requires all immigrants from Ethiopia and China who are over the age of two to be tested for tuberculosis.

According to an Aug. 10 Associated Press article, "adoption advocates say the required testing procedures – and treatment in the case of positive tests – could cause delays ranging from several weeks to 12 months for obtaining a visa to bring adopted children back to the U.S."

A petition is being circulated among several major adoption organizations, asking the CDC to exempt adopted children from its TB test requirement. Many argue that children who test positive would receive better medical treatment in the United States than they would in their countries of origin.

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Friday, August 07, 2009

Canadian Parents Working to Save Adoption Agency from Bankruptcy

Would-be adoptive parents in Canada are hopeful that their adoption plans will be finalized now that a group of families have agreed to help rescue an adoption agency from bankruptcy. The move comes after nearly 200 people met to discuss the fate of the agency, and their pending adoptions.

After the meeting, Christine Starr, chairwoman of Families of Imagine Adoption, told the Winnipeg Free Press that it was "a moving moment ... to see all 189 people present vote in favour of working towards taking the agency out of bankruptcy."

Kids Link International Adoption Agency, which operated under the name Imagine Adoption, went into receivership on July 14, sending hundreds of pending adoptions into limbo. A group of adoptive parents quickly joined forces to find out what their options were and determine their response.

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Friday, July 31, 2009

Program Helps Adopted Children Visit Birth Countries

When Chloe Cohen returns to school this year, her "How I Spent My Summer Vacation" story is likely to top anything her classmates will have to share. While others traveled to amusement parks, national monuments and relatives' homes, Chloe was visiting her home country and former foster parents.
"The journey took off thanks to a mighty convergence of curiosity and restlessness at the Cohen household this year," the Philadelphia Inquirer reported.

"Chloe had been asking more questions about Guatemala [her birth country]. ... At the same time, Amy Cohen, a world geography teacher at Julia R. Masterman Middle and High School in Spring Garden, yearned to travel again."
Amy and her daughter found an organization -- The Ties Program -- that arranges trips for adoptees to their home countries. The Cohens spent two weeks in Guatemala learning about the culture and meeting the foster family that cared for Chloe during the first seven months of her life.

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Wednesday, July 29, 2009

International Adoption Group Struggling in Canada

Canadian couples who have been dreaming of adopting a child, preparing rooms, buying clothes and making announcements now find themselves in limbo. During the second week of July, the Ontario-based Kids Link International went into receivership.

A July 17 Winnipeg Free Press article provided the following details:
Kids Link operated Imagine Adoption, which organized adoptions from Ethiopia and co-ordinated them in Manitoba with Winnipeg-based Adoption Options. BDO Dunwoody, a bankruptcy trustee, has been assigned to take over Kids Link's files, but nine Manitoba couples and hundreds of other Canadians have no idea what will come of their parenting hopes.

Manitoba's assistant deputy minister of Child and Family Services Carolyn Loeppky said the agency learned of the problems with Kids Link on Monday. The province is expected to take part in a cross-country teleconference next week to see what can be done, she said.

"We know that families are probably anxious right now, and we do feel for them, because this is a very important life decision that families make," she said.
The Province of Alberta has promised to help families there affected by the bankruptcy, but Loeppky said Manitoba is still waiting for information from BDO Dunwoody "to give good advice to Manitoba families."
Kids Link operated an agency called Imagine Adoption, which organized adoptions from Ethiopia. There are currently about 20 adoptions that had been initiated through Kids Link which will now need to be completed through other means. An additional 30 children have been matched with parents as well.

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Monday, July 13, 2009

Article Addresses Challenges of Adopting in Sweden

A June 15 article on The Local (an English-language Swedish news website) featured one couple's experience with Sweden's "stressful and draining" adoption process:
Brett, originally from Australia, met Eleonore, a Swede, 12 years ago while he was backpacking across Europe and she was on holiday with friends. They married in 2000 and spent time living between Sweden and Australia before settling in Stockholm to start a family. After many failed attempts to conceive, they decided to research the option of adoption.

They say the process was long, stressful, and mentally draining. Before applying to an adoption agency, couples must be approved by government social welfare services (Socialtjansten), which can take up to six months. Social workers assess aspects of the couple’s suitability, including economic status, reference and police checks, health, and living conditions, including house visits.
Once a couple is approved to adopt, the approval is good for two years. The process took a little longer for Brett and Eleonore than it does for most. But when they held their new daughter, just nine months old, for the first time, they said, all the "hardship of waiting and being stressed" disappeared.

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Friday, July 10, 2009

Reports Indicate Chinese Babies Being Taken from Families, Sold into Adoption

The family planning laws in China are very strict. Each couple is allowed to have just one child, and those do not follow this rule are required to pay a $2,000 fine for each additional child. Reports have begun to surface about children being taken from parents who can't pay the fine, and then being sold into adoptive families.
Tang Jian, leader of Birth Control Administrative Bureau Inspection Team of Ahenyuan county apparently admitted the practice was prevalent at the time [from 2004-2006].

"It is true that some baby girls were forced be brought [sic] into the charity house and then send abroad," he was quoted as saying. (Source: The Telegraph News)
No one has yet determined how prevalent the practice has been, but Chinese officials ensure international adoption agencies that it has been stopped.

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Monday, July 06, 2009

Rochester Group Helps Support Parents During International Adoption Process

Adopting a child can be a decidedly circuitous process -- an experience that can be much more confusing (and frustrating) for parents who are attempting to adopt a child from a foreign country.

To help clarify the process -- and to provide a source of comfort for those who are trying to adopt internationally -- a group of women in Rochester, N.Y. have formed an international adoption support group.
A group of Rochester women began gathering once a month more than a year ago to talk about their experiences and offer emotional support to one another.

Who else, after all, would understand a process in which certified documents and dossiers can be so critical in adopting a foreign-born child? Or how a missed signature can suddenly throw the process out of whack for weeks, if not months? How those months and even years add up to an emotional rollercoaster ride few would understand except those who have been through it.

"It's just nice to have somebody else that understands the process, that you're not constantly explaining something to people. You just talk about your feelings without giving some type of explanation," said Elyse Mitchell, who, along with her husband, adopted a girl from Korea last summer.
(Source: WCCO Rochester, June 27)
According to the WCCO article, the U.S. State Department estimates that more than 17,000 foreign children were adopted by U.S. parents in 2008, a reduction from more than 22,000 in 2004.

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Friday, June 26, 2009

British Tribunal Says Catholic Adoption Agencies Must Serve Same-Sex Couples

A British tribunal has ruled that Catholic adoption programs cannot refuse service to same-sex couples who wish to adopt. According to a June 3 article by Steve Doughty of the Daily Mail Online, some Catholic adoption agencies may close as a result of the decision:
Judges ruled in a test case that the charities, which find homes for hundreds of children each year, will be breaking the law if they refuse to accept same-sex couples as adoptive parents.

The ruling means some Catholic agencies face a choice between abandoning their adoption services or their religious principles. ...

Following the ruling a spokesman for the diocese said: 'As the charities cannot provide unrestricted services without being in breach of their obligations to act in accordance with the tenets of the Roman Catholic Church, it seems likely that the charities will need to close their adoption services and a flagship service of the charities will be lost.
In the United States, laws governing same-sex adoption adopt vary from state to state.

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Friday, June 19, 2009

Madonna Wins Adoption Battle

The lawyer for pop singer Madonna appeared in front of the Malawi Supreme Court June 12 and was told that his client can proceed with her adoption plans. Madonna had been seeking to adopt Chifundo "Mercy" James from an orphanage when a lower court ruled she had not be in the country long enough to adopt.

An article on the CBS News website reported that "Chief Justice Lovemore Munlo, reading the three-judge panel's ruling, said the singer’s commitment to helping disadvantaged children should have been taken into account when deciding on Madonna's request."

Children's welfare groups are still concerned about the matter, with many believing that bending the country's laws for Madonna will make poor and orphaned kids more vulnerable to traffickers. However, because this latest ruling was issued by the Malawi Supreme Court, it cannot be appealed or challenged.

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Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Adoptive Family Awaits Action from Nepalese Government

When Tricia Parrish invited a monk from Nepal to speak to a community organization about his orphanage, she had no plans of adopting one of the children. But she took one look at little Dolker and felt an immediate connection. The monk agreed to adoption request by Tricia and her husband, Philip Kaake, and Dolker flew to the United States to begin her new life.

But as Lucinda Ryan reported in an April 25 article in the Contra Costa Times, governmental red tape has intruded upon the family's hopes for a "happily ever after" ending to their international adoption experience:
The family needed to finalize the adoption earlier this year. The four of them packed their bags and went to Nepal, anticipating they would all return to the U.S. But Nepal's new government hasn't yet completed developing its adoption laws. Dolker had to be left behind.

"It's heart-breaking," Philip Kaake said.

Though the family hopes the attorneys and connections they have in Nepal will soon bring good news about the adoption and they can fly back to bring Dolker home, they have no knowledge of when that may happen.
In addition to enduring the emotional challenge of having to leave their adopted daughter in Nepal, the family is also dealing with a considerable financial burden. Ryan's April 25 article indicated that the Kaake and Parrish have already spent $21,000 in travel and adoption-related fees, and they estimate that getting their adopted daughter back will cost at least $15,000.

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Monday, June 08, 2009

Couple Raises Awareness of Difficulties Adoption Children from Guatemala

Tracey and Jim Hoehn have two adopted daughters, Lulu and Magaly, who were born in Guatemala. The adoption processes for both children were long and drawn out, as international adoptions often are.

But the Hoehns hit a unique snag with their second daughter, when the Guatemalan government ordered that international adoptions be stopped.
By August [2008], the Hoehns had completed the steps to adopt Magaly and had a U.S. passport for her, but the authorities were not going to let her leave Guatemala ... As legal guardians, the Hoehns were responsible for supporting Magaly and began paying for her care. ...

This March, the Hoehns brought their older daughter, almost 5, to the U.S.
-- Source: The Dundalk (MD) Eagle
Though Tracey and Jim have their daughters, many adopting couples do not. About 900 adoptions were in process when the Guatemalan government ceased allowing international adoptions, and those families are still in limbo.

The Hoehns plan to participate in a June 17 march Washington, D.C., to bring attention to the situation.

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Monday, May 25, 2009

Colorado Community Helps Adopted Kids Retain Connection to African Birthplace

As have many other children who were involved in international adoptions, two adopted children in Montrose, Colo., have established new lives in a new family far from the poverty-stricken village where they were born. But thanks to the efforts of their adoptive parents and many other community members, the children (now ages 8 and three) retain a connection with the nation in which they were born.

A May 17 article on The Denver Channel website described the efforts that Michael and Kimberly McGehee have made to ensure that their adopted children remain connected with the culture into which they were born:
Though their biological parents died from AIDS, the two children tested negative for the virus. Jenna and Stephen have adjusted well to life in Colorado, but Michael and Kimberley were determined to ensure the kids didn't forget their roots.

"We've always wanted to keep the kids connected to their culture, so we knew we had to do something," Michael said. The village in Uganda, where Jenna and Stephen were raised, is in the heart of a ghetto, covered in trash. Much of the population has been stricken by the AIDS virus and can hardly afford to eat meals regularly or clothe themselves. Despite the cost, the McGehees decided to raise money to help their children's homeland and make the trip to Uganda as a family.
When the family traveled to Uganda in January, the money that was contributed during a number of community- and school-based fundraisers paid for a feast for the villagers, 500 pairs of shoes, and the construction of a new playground.

Even families whose adoption stories are less dramatic than that of the McGehees are likely to experience issues related to their circumstances through which their adopted children joined the family. For teens who are continuing to struggle with these types of issues, Mount Bachelor Academy (a private boarding school in Prineville, Oregon) provides an innovative and effective therapeutic program for adopted students.

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Thursday, May 14, 2009

Egyptian Case Highlights Potential Perils of International Adoption

In a case that demonstrates the degree to which legal confusion can derail an international adoption, a North Carolina couple who traveled to Egypt to adopt twin boys have instead been arrested and put on trial for alleged child trafficking.

According to a May 13 Associated Press article, Iris Botros and Louis Andros attempted to adopt in the United States, but a number of factors including Andros' age (he is 70, she is 40) prevented them from doing so. AP writers Anna Johnson and Maggie Michael provided the following details of the events surrounding the couple's arrest:
In Muslim countries like Egypt, such adoptions are nearly impossible, snarled in religious tradition and murky laws. Botros and Andros ... also may have been caught up in an attempt by the Egyptian government to show it is cracking down on human trafficking after criticism from the United States.

On the advice of Egyptian friends, the two traveled to Cairo in the fall and were put in touch with a Coptic Christian orphanage that was caring for two newborn orphans. The orphanage gave them forged documents to say Botros had given birth to the children, and the couple donated $4,600 to the orphanage ...

But when they tried to get American passports for the babies, a U.S. Embassy employee became suspicious of them ... When asked by an embassy official, Botros admitted she wasn't the biological mother, [the couple's] lawyer said.
"Adoption experts said the case highlights the importance of being well-informed and working with governments and reputable agencies to make sure laws and social norms are followed," the AP writers reported.

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Wednesday, May 06, 2009

Alleged Biological Dad Speaks Out About Madonna's Adoption Attempt

A man who claims to be the father of a four-year-old girl that pop star Madonna hopes to adopt says he wants to raise the girl himself. James Kambewa said that he has never met his supposed daughter and that he thought she had died along with her mother, who was Kambewa’s then-girlfriend.
In an Early Show world exclusive, Kambewa tells correspondent Priya David, "I do not want my baby to be adopted because I want to take care of her and I'm capable to take care of my baby ... Mercy, she is a Malawian – so [I] need her to grow as a Malawian, as well with our culture." (Source: CBS)
Madonna's adoption bid was initially rejected by a Malawian court because she hadn't met the country-s residency requirement of 12 to 18 months before adopting. Court officials, and some human rights groups, have expressed concern over the possible bending of the rules of international adoption, saying it puts children at greater risk of being trafficked.

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Tuesday, May 05, 2009

Adoptive Parents Advised Not to Trust International Vaccine Reports

Researchers with Case Western Reserve University School of Medicine have determined that vaccination records of children who were born in China, Russia, and Guatemala may not be accurate -- and, as a result, parents who have adopted children from these nations should consider having their children tested by a pediatrician to establish their true immunization status.

According to a May 4 article on Canada's CBCNews website, the Case Western researchers reached their conclusions after analyzing data on 465 children who were processed through an international adoption clinic between 2001 and 2006:
Children who are adopted from China, Russia and Guatemala may not be protected against polio, measles and other diseases even though their records suggest they are, say researchers who checked for evidence of immunity. ...

"Immunization records should not be accepted as evidence of protective immunity," the study's authors concluded. "Parents should be well informed and supported to choose between re-vaccination or vaccination, based on serologic [blood] testing."
The Case Western study was published in the May edition of the journal Archives of Pediatrics & Adolescent Medicine.

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Wednesday, April 29, 2009

U.S. Citizens Adopting Fewer Chinese Children

An April 28, 2009, article by Time magazine writer Kayla Webley reports that adoptions of Chinese children by U.S. parents have declined dramatically over the past two years.

Webley attributes this decline to heightened standards that the Chinese government put into effect in May 2007:
The stricter guidelines, intended to limit the overwhelming number of applicants to China's well-regarded adoption program, have been effective -- adoptions of Chinese children by U.S. citizens have dropped 50 percent, according to the U.S. State Department.

The new regulations require, among other things, that adoptive parents be married, under 50, not classified as clinically obese, not have taken antidepressant medications in the past two years, not have facial deformities and meet certain educational and economic requirements.
Webley's Time article noted that the number of children who were adopted by U.S. citizens through the state-run China Center for Adoption Affairs fell from 7,906 in 2005 to 3,909 three years later.

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Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Mass. Agency Earns Accreditation for International Adoptions

The Florence Crittenton League of Lowell, Massachusetts, has been approved to handle international adoptions with countries that observe the Hague Adoption Convention.

The Lowell (Mass.) Sun reported that the accreditation was issued by the Council on Accreditation in New York, which since July 2006 has been the only national accreditor that is recognized by the U.S. State Department.

The Florence Crittenton League also holds accreditation from the Russian Federation, which is required in order to facilitate the adoption of Russian children.

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Friday, April 24, 2009

Malawi Court will Hear Madonna's Adoption Appeal

Pop star Madonna has appealed a court ruling which denied her request to adopt a three-year-old girl from Malawi. A Malawian court official said Monday that Madonna's appeal will be heard in early March.
Joseph Chigona, Registrar of the High Court and the Supreme Court of Appeal, said the case will come before three judges from the Supreme Court of Appeal on May 4 ...Malawi requires prospective parents to live in the country for 18 to 24 months while child welfare authorities assess their suitability.(Source: The Associated Press)
A lower court judge denied Madonna's adoption request based on the residency law, citing concerns that ignoring the law could put other children at risk of being trafficked. Madonna's appeal will be heard in a closed-door session that she is not required to attend.

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Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Ethiopian Adoptions on the Rise

Five years ago, before Angelina Jolie brought international attention to the African nation, the Blome family adopted a six-year-old boy from Ethiopia. Since then, adoptions of Ethiopian children have soared from just 289 in 2004 to more than 1,700 last year.
Fraud concerns put a halt to adoptions from Guatemala and Vietnam in the last several months. The Kazakh Embassy has ceased processing adoption dossiers -- the inches-think binder of required home study and family background documents. ... China poses challenges as well. ... Ethiopia, by contrast, allows both married and single parents to adopt, and the process typically takes less than two years. (Source: The Contra Costa (California) Times)
The adoption agency chosen by the Blomes five years ago had an intriguing requirement -- that the couple commit to giving something back to Ethiopia. So every year, Erik Blome returns with crates of art supplies and runs workshops at eight orphanages.

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Sunday, March 22, 2009

Canadian Woman Pursues Kazakh Adoption

The adoption process is always exciting, and there's always a degree of uncertainty about just how it will all turn out. But for Lindsay, a woman from Winnipeg, Canada, the excitement and uncertainty are heightened by her decision to adopt from Kazakhstan.
"[Lindsay] did try to adopt in Canada, but she is single and has been told adopted children mostly go to married couples. She could have a baby naturally but she doesn't want to wait for the right man to come along."
So she's gathered together over $30,000 in cash - as required by the Kazakh government - and has boarded a plane to a country known for its corruption. She hopes to return in a few short weeks to introduce her child to her family and his new home. Source: CBC

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Monday, March 02, 2009

Oregon Slows International Adoptions

Oregon has put a 60-day moratorium on international adoptions. Some speculate that the move comes in response to the death of a young girl who had been living in Mexico but was under Oregonian jurisdiction.
"Oregon has sent 27 children to relatives outside the United States since October 1999, The Oregonian reported. About half went to Mexico."
The interim director of the Children's, Adults and Families division of the state's Human Services agency has sought legal guidance on complying with The Hague Adoption Convention. The Hague agreement is an international adoption treaty designed to prevent trafficking in humans. Source: The Associated Press

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Thursday, February 26, 2009

Nepalese Children Still Awaiting Adoption

Two months ago, Nepal's Ministry of Women, Children, and Social Welfare lifted an inter-country adoption ban. This action marked the first time in two years that Nepalese children were permitted to be adopted by people from other countries. However, bureaucratic red tape is still preventing adoptions.
"According to a ministry official, the joint-secretary responsible for looking after adoptions, Prakash Adhikari, left for the United States... and is yet to return. Similarly, joint-secretary Ratna Kaji Bajracharya, who was deputed to shoulder Adhikari's responsibilities in his absence, is currently in Pokhara [Nepal, near the Chinese border.]"
In October the government released a list of 58 agencies that had been authorized to facilitate inter-country adoptions in Nepal, but none of these organizations have placed a single child in a permanent home yet. Source: Republica (Nepal)

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Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Strike Delays International Adoption

When Dulcie and John Becker headed to Columbia to finalize the adoption of their five-month-old son, they expected to be gone for a few days. Instead, they've been out of the country for nearly seven weeks.
"The Beckers have been keeping friends and family updated by a website, as they've waited for the end of a 44-day-long Columbian court workers' strike that has prevented them from getting the judge's signature they need to bring [their son] home to Minnetonka."
Dozens of families are in the same situation, waiting first for the strike to end and then for the courts to catch up on a backlog of cases. Strikes aren't unusual in Columbia - but they typically last only a few days. Now that the strike is over, the Beckers and families who are in similar situations are hoping for swift returns to the United States. Source: KARE 11 News (MN)

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Saturday, November 01, 2008

International Panel Promotes Foreign Adoption

At a recent conference on international adoption that was held in Moravia, a panel of European experts stressed the importance of encouraging the adoption of Czech children by foreigners.
"A mere 277 Czech kids have been adopted by foreign families since 2000, when the Czech Republic ratified a Hague convention on adoption and child protection. These children, predominantly of Roma origin, often find their new homes in Denmark, Germany or Italy."
Lenka Pavlova, director of the government Office for International Legal Protection of Children, cited prejudice on the part of many Czech parents as a main reason that international adoption of Czech children needs to be made easier. Racism and prejudice against underprivileged children prevent many Czech families from adopting, Pavlova said. Source: Prague Post

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Monday, October 20, 2008

Parents Change Kids' Worlds with International Adoptions

Since 1998, U.S. families have adopted more than 2,500 children from Guatemala. Every adoptive parent has their own reasons, whether spiritual, humanitarian, or cultural. Regardless of why they decided to adopt, these parents have provided their children with opportunities that weren't available in the kids' birth country.
"Joel Neikirk said the world already had a lot of orphans, and instead of bringing another child into the world, they would take care of one from a Third World country. Neikirk said he had always wanted to adopt because he had been adopted."
International adoptions can cost up to $25,000 or $30,000 dollars, which puts them out of reach for many couples. But tax credits and employer reimbursement programs can help make it possible. Source: The Hays (Kansas) Daily News

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Monday, October 13, 2008

Welsh Woman Overcomes Obstacles to Adopt Croatian Orphan

Tracy had no plans to become a mother; but her visit to a Croatian orphanage changed that. While she was there, she met Mishi - a three-year-old boy who stole her heart. Thus began her four-year journey to adopt Mishi and bring him back to Wales.
"She wrote to the Croatian Ambassador, but embassy officials told her she couldn't adopt Mishi because the countries had no adoption agreement. So she contacted the Rijeka hospital, where bosses welcomed her dream - and persuaded government officials to authorize the adoption."
Back in Wales, Tracy met just as much resistance from her home country's government. Her social services representative had never even heard of Croatia. But, four years later, Mishi is home and settling well into his new life. Source: Wales on Sunday

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Wednesday, October 08, 2008

China Says New Policies Enhance Protection of Adopted Children

China has issued a new policy which allows people to register children who have been adopted illegally. The unusual move is intended to protect the children by guaranteeing their legal rights.
"The guideline, jointly issued by five ministries and made public on Monday, allows people to register their illegally adopted children without fear of punishment... The legal rights of these children are not currently guaranteed, such as permanent residence of a city, schooling, and inheritance."
People who have adopted illegally will not have to meet strict requirements regarding age and health. The new policy also requires anyone who finds an abandoned infant to hand the child over to police immediately. Source: Xinhua News (China)

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Wednesday, September 24, 2008

US-Vietnam Adoption Deal Ended

An agreement between the United States and Vietnam that has enabled the adoptions of hundreds of Vietnamese children came to an end last week as a result of corruption revelations that came to light during an April investigation by the U.S. embassy in Hanoi.
"The six-month investigation of 300 cases unearthed disturbing situations, including hospitals sending babies to orphanages for overseas adoption in the wake of parents being unable to pay medical bills for the birth. Health officials also got financial inducement. In one case a grandmother sent a baby girl for adoption without the knowledge of the parents, though in that instance the baby was reunited with her mother."
The adoption agreement between the two countries has been suspended indefinitely, until both sides can resolve disagreements over the program. Source: KazinForm

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Monday, September 22, 2008

Concern Rises Over Nepalese Adoptions

A Nepalese woman who unknowingly signed a document giving her children up for adoption may not be able to get them back, according to a local news report that says illegal trafficking is a major concern in the country.
"Activists are concerned that the lucrative business of inter-country adoption of Nepalese children - with clients from Europe and the USA willing to spend as much as $25,000 per child - increases the risk of abduction, trafficking and the illegal sale of children by children's homes."
While the government is committed to protect children from being illegally adopted, monitoring of adoption agencies and orphanages is sparse. Source: IRIN (Integrated Regional Information Networks)

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Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Vietnamese Legislators Agree to Adoption Regulations

Vietnam's National Assembly's Standing Committee has agreed to fully support the signing and ratifying of the Hague Convention on Protection of Children and Cooperation in Respect of Inter-country Adoption. The Hague Convention, as this document is more commonly known, is a set of policies meant to ensure the protection of adopted children.
"Since 2003, with the Government's 68/202/ND-CP decree coming into force, a number of agreements on child adoption with other countries have been signed and an International Adoption Department under the Ministry of Justice has been set up."
Ratification of the Hague Convention took several years. Vietnam had to set several policies in place to ensure conditions were in line with the convention's requirements. Source: Vietnam Bridge

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Monday, August 18, 2008

World's Poorest Children Have a Friend in Tucson

Jackie Semar has been interested in adoption for almost 30 years. She's now the executive director for the International Child Foundation, an organization that advocates for international adoption and child welfare in developing countries.
"[Jackie] helped found the International Child Foundation in 2003. The non-profit group facilitates about 20 international adoptions a year of children from countries including Haiti, Guatemala, China, and Khazakstan."
The organization also provides financial support to Haitian orphanages. The money subsidizes nutrition and ensures that the children get enough to eat. Source: Arizona Daily Star

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Thursday, August 07, 2008

Iowa Woman Still Waiting to Adopt Vietnamese Child

Several months ago, the Iowa Press-Citizen ran a story about an area woman who was caught in the unfortunate and frustrating red tape of international adoption. With paperwork and home studies completed, Karla boarded a flight to Vietnam to complete the process and bring her daughter home.
"On the day [Karla] arrived in Vietnam - Oct. 25 - U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services announced that because of 'growing concerns about irregularities in the methods used to identify children for adoption in Vietnam and the resulting difficulties in classifying those children as orphans,' a field office in Ho Chi Minh City now would decide all I-600s, which is a form that classifies an orphan as an immediate relative and expedites the visa process."
Karla's story is a difficult reminder that snags can happen at any point in the adoption process. Though it shouldn't stop people who are considering adoption, it will hopefully persuade them to diligently cross every "t" and dot every "i". Source: Iowa City Press-Citizen

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Friday, May 30, 2008

Adoption of Toddler Held Up for Seven Months

Karla made the decision to adopt a child about three years ago. She began the process twice, both times with countries that changed their rules and refused to accept her application, before turning to Vietnam in hopes of finally realizing her dream of becoming a mom.
"On the day [Karla] arrived in Vietnam, Oct. 25, the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services in Ho Chi Minh City announced that because of 'growing concerns about irregularities in the methods used to identify children for adoption in Vietnam and the resulting difficulties in classifying those children as orphans,' the local USCIS office would need to verify the status of any orphan up for adoption to the U.S."
Thus began what is, to date, a seven-month wait for Karla to bring her adopted daughter home. Karla's lawyer, Irene Steffas, says there is hope because they're re-tracing some of their steps to show governments in both countries that the law has been followed and the adoption is legitimate. Source: Wisconsin State Journal

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Monday, May 19, 2008

Vietnam Set to Ban Adoptions

Vietnam has announced that it will not renew a bilateral adoption agreement with the U.S. The announcement comes in the wake of a U.S. Embassy report that outlines corruption in the adoption system.
"In its nine-page report, the US Embassy said some American adoption agencies paid orphanage officials as much as US$10,000 per referral, while others took them on shopping sprees and junkets to the US in return for a flow of babies. It said questions arose after routine investigations turned up widespread inconsistencies in adoption paperwork."
The director of Vietnam's International Adoption Agency called the U.S. report "groundless," saying the United States has been uncooperative. As of July 1, the country will stop accepting American adoption applications. Source: Shanghai Daily

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Monday, April 21, 2008

Waits Lengthen for China Adoption

China has long been a popular choice for people wanting to adopt. But increased delays in the adoption process are causing some to rethink their decision. The delays, caused by tighter restrictions and a smaller number of available children, have jumped from 6-12 months to potentially now 3-4 years for new applicants.
"The uncertainty has fueled rumors and speculation within the tight-knit community of Americans who have adopted from China or hope to do so. Some believe the longer waits are part of a temporary Chinese effort to scale back international adoptions ahead of the Beijing Olympics in August. Others wonder if China may be phasing out foreign adoptions almost entirely."
Still, many families have chosen to simply wait it out, doing their part to facilitate the adoption process and trusting that - in time - it will result in a new addition to their family. Source: CBS News

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Wednesday, April 02, 2008

Keeping the Native Language?

A common question among parents who adopt internationally is whether or not to help their adopted child maintain their native language while also learning English. Often, parents are motivated by a desire to help their adopted child retain a sense of her heritage.
"For most adoptive families the preservation of the first language is not a major priority: on arrival, the main concerns are about learning English, the child's health, attachment, initial adjustment, education, and remediation (if needed). There is no place here for preserving native language as the first-order priority."
Trying to maintain the native language while learning English can be confusing for a child. Some parents consider hiring a native-speaking tutor, but that can cause attachment issues as the child begins to rely on the tutor. Most experts agree that it's best to help an adopted child learn English, and then revisit their native language when they're older and better adjusted. Read more at ADoptionArticlesDirectory.com.

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Saturday, March 29, 2008

Benefits of the Hague Convention

It's a long name: the Hague Convention on Protection of Children and Co-Operation in Respect of Intercountry Adoption. Typically referred to simply as The Hague Convention, it's an international policy that goes into effect on April 1st in the United States.
"The convention outlines the process by which a child becomes eligible for adoption and also outlines the processes whereby a family is deemed eligible to adopt a child. This protects children because it ensures that every attempt has been made to keep the child in his or her birth family and birth country. It protects adoptive families, who can be confident that any child they are considering for adoption has been previously designated as eligible for adoption."
Few adoptive families will notice any changes in their adoption process as the convention primarily impacts record-keeping and internal communications between adoption agencies and governmental agencies. Read more at Press-Citizen.com.

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Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Republic of Congo Lifts Adoption Ban

Three months after a French charity tried to fly a group of children out of Chad, the Republic of Congo has lifted a ban on international adoptions. The ban went into effect on October 31st as a "preventative measure."
"At least one human rights group in Republic of Congo has been calling for action on suspected child trafficking in the country since August. The head of that group, Loamba Moke, said he was glad the government was taking action to assure the safety of adopted children, but called for tougher laws in the prosecution of child trafficking networks."
Workers from the French charity Zoe's Ark have been sentenced to eight years in jail as a result of the incident. Read more at IHT.com.

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Monday, March 03, 2008

Families Encountering Troubles with Vietnamese Adoptions

From 2003 to 2005, the U.S. government suspended adoption of Vietnamese children, citing corruption in the Vietnam adoption process. Now, as an adoption agreement between Vietnam and the United States is about to expire, families who have nearly completed adoptions are having to fight to get the necessary visas to bring their children home.
"Twenty-one entry visas for children have been rejected in the last two years, according to the State Department. More than half the denials have come since last October, prompting complaints that the department is singling out individual cases to embarrass the Vietnamese government into changing its adoption process."
Two California families have elicited the help of the state's Senators, one of whom has promised to lobby the State Department for approval of the visas. One couple, Tom and Wendy Mills, have been separated off and on for nearly 5 months while Tom has stayed in Hanoi caring for their adopted daughter and waiting for her visa to be approved. Read more at TheDispatch.com.

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Wednesday, February 27, 2008

International Adoptive Families Share Experiences

Last Sunday, an adoption organization in Virginia - ValleyAdopt - sponsored a celebration honoring the Chinese New Year. The event was attended by families who have adopted, or are adopting, children from outside the United States.
"Part reunion and part support, the event is the largest of several that the group holds each year, chances for parents to get together, share stories and enjoy their children. For the kids, it's also an opportunity to interact with people who look like them - and who don't ask the awkward questions that the outside world sometimes does."
ValleyAdopt was started about seven years ago, as a support to adoptive families. The group now includes nearly 100 members who stay in touch throughout the year via the Internet. Read more at NewsLeader.com.

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Sunday, February 03, 2008

Court Condemns France for Ruling on Adoption Case

The European Court of Human Rights has condemned France for discriminating against a lesbian teacher who wanted to adopt a child. Her adoption request was denied.
"[Caroline] Mercary said the ruling effectively prohibits France from refusing adoption requests on sexual orientation grounds."
The court's ruling also granted the woman about $35,000 in damages and court costs. France has denied that her sexual orientation played a part in their initial decision. Read more at English.People.com.

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Sunday, January 13, 2008

Adoption Ads in Spanish

According to the Administration for Children and Families, approximately 15 percent of foster care children waiting to be adopted are Hispanic. With that figure in mind, the Ad Council, in partnership with Revolucion Hispanic Communications, has created the agency's first Spanish language public service announcement for AdoptUsKids.
"The new adoption ads were distributed to more than 28,000 media outlets nationwide on Wednesday, December 12 through donated media space. The multi-media program includes Spanish-language television, radio, and print public service announcement (PSAs) issuing a national call-to-action in the messaging itself."
The tag for the campaign; "Completa una vida. Completa la tuya. (Complete a life. Complete your own.)" focuses on the personal fulfillment parents often get when they adopt a child.

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Friday, January 11, 2008

The Adoption Quandary

Writer Elizabeth Larsen has been personally affected by the recent changes to the Guatemalan adoption processes; her adopted daughter is from the country that has radically reformed its adoption system.
"The new law, passed last month, requires the creation of a centralized government authority to oversee adoptions and mandates that any private orphanages, such as those run by charities, be registered."
The new law also shuffles priorities, favoring family preservation first, followed by adoption by relatives, then domestic adoption. International adoptions will now be considered a "last resort".

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Thursday, January 03, 2008

Topeka, Kansas Family Has New Daughter

After twenty months of paperwork, home studies, and what seemed like endless waiting, Chris and Dianna Brodine have a new addition to their family. One November 16th, Dianna returned home from Vietnam with their new 11-month-old daughter, Phoebe.
"Brodine said she and her husband chose to adopt from Vietnam when they heard of a new program through Dillon International, Inc... Although the adoption was officially recognized in Vietnam after the Giving and Receiving Ceremony, Phoebe won't be able to apply for U.S. citizenship until after three post-placement visits by Dillon International officials."
Dianna said the experience was an emotional roller coaster, but has been amazing. She also says that she and her husband would eventually like to adopt another baby from Vietnam.

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Friday, December 21, 2007

Guatemala Ratifies the Hague Convention

The Guatemalan Congress recently approved a new law that ratifies the Hague Convention and regulates the country's adoption process. It has long been speculated that Guatemalan adoptions were fraught with corruption and those involved in the process have often been accused of bribery and even of child trafficking.
"Today is a historic day for the country, because the foundations have been laid for putting an end to the theft of children to place them in adoption', said parliamentary Deputy Edgard Alfredo Rodriquez of the centre-left National Union of Hope (UNE), after the law was approved by more than two-thirds of the legislators."
The new laws mean that adoptions will take longer, which some critics say will deter prospective adoptive parents. Overall, however, the ratification has been met with excitement. Both the Hague Convention and its accompanying laws will take effect on December 31st.

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Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Americans Adopting Fewer Children From Other Countries

The number of foreign children adopted by Americans has dropped by 15 percent in the past two years, mostly because of new restrictions from China and Russia. New policy changes from China, for example, require adopting parents to be married, have a certain income level, not be overweight or suffer from certain diseases, and be under age 50.

According to State Department statistics, the number of foreign adoptions peaked in 2004 at 22,888 but dropped to 20,679 in 2006.

Besides tougher restrictions on foreign adoptions by China and Russia, another factor is the United Nations' preference for caring for orphans in their own countries over sending them abroad.

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Saturday, December 01, 2007

Foreign Adoptions Decline in the US

For the third straight year, the number of foreign children being adopted by U.S. families has dropped dramatically. In the past two years alone, foreign adoptions have dropped 15 percent. Tighter adoption requirements in China and Russia are at the top of the list of causes for this new trend.
"[Harvard Law Professor Elizabeth Bartholet] said China and Russia reflected a trend in which countries opened themselves up to international adoption, then scaled back."
In addition to China and Russia, Guatemala's adoption process is beginning to slow and could all but stop as the government tries to impose new regulations on its adoption industry. Some experts view the decline as a good thing that could open up adoption opportunities in other countries like Kenya and Peru.

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Friday, November 09, 2007

Locating a Birth Mother

Until recently, a child who was adopted internationally had little or no opportunity to locate his or her birth mother. Today, that opportunity exists thanks to the emergence of "searchers" who help locate international birth mothers.
"Deciding whether or not to initiate the search is not easy. While there are a multitude of heartwarming stories, there are also others, where alcoholism was rampant in the family or where the birth mother abused the child."
There's also a possibility that a birth mother will ask for financial support or ask the adoptive parents to adopt another child. There are risks involved in initiating a search for a child's birth mother, and they should be carefully considered. There is also, however, the potential for a heartwarming reunion.

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Friday, November 02, 2007

Guatadopt.com Works to Present Truth

The sensational stories surrounding Guatemala and its adoption processes could lead people to believe that all adoptions which take place in that country are, on some level, corrupt. In an attempt to distinguish reality from the sensational, Kelly Caldwell launched a website called Guatadopt.com. Kevin Kruetner is now the group's spokesperson and lead writer.
"I don't think the media is very balanced. They tend to show sensationalized stories and worst of all, they never seem to devote enough time to really understand the dynamics. But when a reporter is given two days to pump out a piece, what can we expect to happen?"
Kruetner urges people to remember that the vast majority of Guatemalan adoptions are legitimate, and even the stories of corruption often don't tell the full story.

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Monday, October 29, 2007

Charity may be Charged with Kidnapping

The French charity Zoe's Arc may be charged with kidnapping for attempting to fly over 100 children from the dangerous Chad-Darfur boarder into France.
"The French [citizens] are part of a group of 16 Europeans, including a seven-member Spanish flight crew, detained Thursday on suspicion of trying to smuggle the children out of Chad with the aim of adoption."
A spokeswoman for Zoe's Arc said the organization had permission to transport the children, but a spokeswoman from UNICEF said the action violated nearly all international adoption rules.

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Monday, October 22, 2007

Traveling for Your Adoption

Traveling is one of the more exciting parts of the adoption process. But it can also become one of the most stressful parts if you forget to pack important or necessary items - especially if you're traveling internationally.
"I am all for packing light... and especially when you're traveling to adopt a child, I think you should bring everything that you need. While it is true... that you can often find what you need when you arrive, you don't want to have to spend your first few hours or days with your child in a store in a new place trying to find diapers, formula, lotion or dish soap."
Carefully create a list of things you'll need. If you're traveling internationally, consider the climate you'll be traveling too, and medical needs that may be unique to the country or area. Pack thoroughly, but don't over pack. Bring what you need, but not too much of what you need. Be sure to leave enough room to bring home some of your child's personal items, and for cultural items that you may want to purchase for your home.

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Monday, October 08, 2007

Policies on Prince Edward Island Blocking International Adoptions

Several families on Canada's Prince Edward Island (P.E.I.) claim that the government's new policies on international adoptions have created unnecessary obstacles and undue stress on families wishing to adopt internationally.
"Four P.E.I. children have been adopted under China's Waiting Child Program... The program arranges the adoption from China of children with minor medical needs... but the P.E.I government now believes it is illegal for the province to allow agencies to match children and families, as was done previously."
Instead, matches must now be made directly between governments, with no third-party involvement. The province cites China's inclusion in the Hague Convention on Intercountry Adoptions as its reason. A handful of P.E.I families have formed the P.E.I. Adoption Coalition and are lobbying for the province to overturn its decision.

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Wednesday, October 03, 2007

Adopting as an Expat

Though adoption of Chinese children has declined due to heightened restrictions placed by the Chinese government, there were still 6,494 adoptions last year. Most of these were by families that flew to China to pick up their adopted children and then flew home to the United States. But a small percentage of Chinese adoptions are made up of American expatriates living in China.
"The U.S. is one of just six nations that allow its citizens to adopt a Chinese child while living in China. Other countries are concerned about the lack of control and oversight they have over their far-flung citizens, but American expats seeking to adopt follow the same well-defined adoption process that is required of families living in the U.S."
Though no one currently tracks expat adoptions, some people estimate that between 200 and 300 of these types of adoptions occurred last year.

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Monday, September 24, 2007

Nepali Government Urged to Resolve Deadlock

In June, the Nepali government suspended adoptions in response to severe criticism over its adoption system and practices. Today, diplomats from six nations urged the government to quickly resolve the deadlock that has left hundreds of families "in limbo".
"Diplomatic officials said the move left plans by some 358 foreign families to adopt children from the Himalayan country up in the air. 'It's a very emotional problem and it's becoming a humanitarian issue for these families,' French Ambassador Gilles-Henry Garault told AFP."
Nepal's minister for women, Khadga Bahadur Biswokarma, said new adoption regulations have been drafted and will be sent to the cabinet in the next few days. She was unable, however, to give a timeframe for implementation of the new rules.

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Wednesday, September 12, 2007

TB Infections Rising Among Adoptees

A recent study lead by Dr. Anna Mandalakas of the Rainbow Babies and Children's Hospital in Ohio found that TB infections among international adoptees have risen dramatically in the last 20 years. The rate of infection was also found to increase steadily as children got older.
"TB rates among the children in the American study ranged from nearly 15 percent in adoptees from Eastern Europe, 14 percent from Russian and 12 percent from Korea to between 12.5 percent and 11 percent in India, China and South America, 8.3 percent in Central America and the Caribbean and 2.8 percent in Southeast Asia."
Though a child can be infected with mycobacterium tuberculosis may not develop an active disease, the study's authors still recommend that adopted children be tested. Children often become infected if they spend their early years in an orphanage.

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Monday, September 10, 2007

Cross-Cultural Parenting

Cross-cultural and international adoptions have increased dramatically over the last several years. An estimated 20,000 children are adopted each year from places like China, Russia, and Guatemala. Once the adoption process is complete, the next challenge for these families is learning how to integrate different cultures into the familial DNA.
"'They need to understand that race and ethnicity still matter,' [Judy] Stigger says. 'Love is not going to be enough. Where your child came from is part of them, whether that's a neighborhood in Chicago or an orphanage in China.'"
Stigger has experienced this first-hand as she's raised her adopted daughter Kathy, an African-American. Having friends with similar ethnic backgrounds, celebrating ethnic or culture-specific holidays, and learning some of the language if the adopted child is from a foreign country are all ways to help the child understand and appreciate where she’s from and help the family become truly multiracial. Read more at SunTimes.com.

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Wednesday, August 22, 2007

TB Screening Suggested for all International Adoptees

Researchers at the University of Alberta are suggesting that all children adopted from countries outside North America be screened for tuberculosis. Their recent study found that, in the Canadian province of Alberta, 40 percent of children who were diagnosed with TB were international adoptees.
"Most international adoptees are younger than five years of age and frequently come from resource-poor countries where tuberculosis is common and pre-natal screenings for infectious diseases are rare, say Richard Long, MD, professor in Pulmonary Medicine at the University of Alberta and lead author of the study."
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Sunday, August 05, 2007

Adoption Process Worth the Wait

Katrina and Tom Rusin waited over two years to finalize their adoption of a little girl from China. Stricter adoption regulations and bureaucracy in foreign governments has consistently increased the amount of time necessary to complete international adoptions.
"The world of international adoption is evolving, said Mary Kate Schneider, director of adoption for the Family and Children's Agency in Norwalk [Connecticut]. 'We try and tell families from Day 1 and on that... time frames can change,' Schneider said. 'I think in the end, each country is trying to have these regulations in place so we can secure the best possible adoption for their children.'"
Potential adoptive parents may be required to travel more than once to the country from which they want to adopt, adding to the overall expense of the adoption. Despite the costs and the long wait, adoptive parents say it's worth it.

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Sunday, July 15, 2007

Russia Re-Opens its Doors

Months after international adoptions were unceremoniously halted, the Russian government has reaccredited seven U.S. adoption agencies, enabling them to resume their work.
"'We believe this to be a substantial step in the direction of the stability of Russian adoption,' reads a statement on the web site of the International Assistance Group, one of the agencies that was reaccredited. The statement appears along with a copy of the agency's new accreditation document from the Education and Science Ministry, dated June 27."
Eighty-one agencies have yet to receive reaccreditation, and it's unclear whether any non-U.S. agencies have been reaccredited either. The list of the U.S. agencies that are now able to operation in Russia appears in an article in the Moscow Times. Read more at TheMoscowTimes.com.

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Sunday, July 08, 2007

Handling the Stress

International adoptions are stressful. The adoption process in general, whether domestic or international, is stressful but there's often added stress in the international process.
"A prime example of severe adoption stress was created for families when Romania closed its doors to international adoptions. When this occurred, hundreds of families were caught in the pipeline, and their children were condemned to living in an institutional care environment despite the fact that there was a loving family somewhere in the world that had already developed a bond with them."
Home studies, adoption referrals, physician's visits, and travel to and from the child's home country can all begin to add stress upon stress. Husbands and wives need to be honest with each other, and seek counseling if they’re beginning to feel overwhelmed. Be prepared to experience stress before, during, and after the adoption process. But be prepared not to handle it alone.

Read more at International.Adoption.com.

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Monday, July 02, 2007

Choosing a Program and Country

For most people, the decision to adopt simply opens the door on a whole of world of other decisions that have to be made. Which adoption agency/program is best? Should we adopt domestically or internationally? A boy or girl? An infant, or an older child? By sharing some of her story, Erin hopes to provide some guidance to others who are considering adoption.
"...here are some tips on finding the right adoption program for your family. Decide what age and gender child you are hoping for. Determine what your 'adoption budget' will be, and what you can and cannot afford in regards to adoption fees. Determine how long you can manage to travel..."
Answering basic questions like these will help narrow down the almost overwhelming number of adoption choices that are available. Read more online.

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Wednesday, June 27, 2007

A Plea for Domestic Adoption

Randy Parker, executive director of Richland County (Ohio) Children Services says he'd like to see more local couples consider domestic adoption before looking internationally. With all the recent attention surrounding international adoptions by people like Angelina Jolie, domestic adoption has taken a back seat.
"'Anytime you can give a child a better life, I'm all for that,' [Roy] Shoulders said. 'I'm not opposed to international adoptions; I don't have any qualms with it. But because of the need in this country, I would love for us to take care of our own first.'"
Parker says there are currently 18 youngsters in Richland County that need an adoptive family. Roy Shoulders was adopted by a local family when he was just three weeks old. He's now the boys' basketball coach at St. Peter's high school in Mansfield, Ohio. Read more at MansfieldNewsJournal.com.
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Thursday, June 21, 2007

Kenyan Judge Calls for Tighter Adoption Process

Lady Justice Martha Koome, speaking at a forum to mark the Day of the African Child, said that the loose information regarding adoption rules and regulations contributes to child trafficking in Kenya. She called for closer scrutiny of adoption applicants, especially in more rural courts.
"She said previously, persons who wanted to overlook the procedures used to file adoption matters in High Court stations outside Nairobi where they would find judges who were overwhelmed by other judicial work and managed to easily obtain orders, especially in cases of international adoption."
Lady Justice Koome suggested that international adoptions should be given the lowest priority, with every effort being made to place children within their family network or immediate community.

Read more at AllAfrica.com.

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Sunday, June 17, 2007

Clinic Helps with Medical Records

An adoption clinic in Milwaukee, Wisconsin offers a unique service to its clients: the analyzing and interpreting of a child's medical records. One of the biggest challenges in international adoption is getting a clear understanding of a child's medical condition.
"'Every country has its own way of defining health, so we try to interpret it and tell the families what's going on,' said Inshirah Farhoud, a Pediatric Practitioner at the clinic."
Adoption workers from Russia recently visited the clinic and were pleased to see that the children were still in great health, and that the health of many had actually improved.

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Tuesday, June 05, 2007

Adoption Destination: Ethiopia

In 1997, just one American adoption agency was licensed to operate in Ethiopia. Today, there are twenty-two. Though Angelina Jolie's adoption of an Ethiopian child has certainly helped bring the country to the fore-front of international adoptions, its popularity had already been on the rise.
"Ethiopia, with a population of 76 million, has an estimated 5 million orphans, according to aid organizations. Many African nations have outlawed or impeded the adoption of their children by foreigners. Ethiopia has welcomed American and European families who are willing to provide homes for children who have lost both parents to AIDS, malaria, tuberculosis or starvation, or who come from families too destitute to feed and clothe them."
The two things that set Ethiopia's adoption system apart from others are transitional homes in which the orphans are very well cared-for, and the opportunity for adoptive parents to meet birth families and even visit their villages.

Read more at TwinCities.com.

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Wednesday, May 30, 2007

Domestic vs. International Adoption

Laurie and Bill White have adopted both domestically and internationally. And while there are many similarities, they cite some important differences, too.
"There are some big differences between domestic and international adoption. Bill says there is a lot more paperwork adopting overseas. 'I mean, they send us a tomb filled with paperwork that has to be done over 6 or 8 month period. And everything is time sensitive, too.'"
Though the overall time frame is similar between domestic and international adoptions, the time between getting "the call" and getting the baby is often much shorter for people who adopt domestically. The White's had picked up their son within 24 hours of getting their call. Read more online.

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Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Those Hoping to Adopt from Russia Still Waiting

The Russian government recently reported that American adoption countries who wanted to operate in Russia would have to apply to be re-accredited or re-registered. But the application must pass through five different government ministries in a process that's so poorly organized it's left many hopeful families waiting indefinitely.

"'From the beginning everybody was very honest that things aren't that great in Russia, but just stick with it,' [Kathleen] Dorrian said. 'I think they want to keep these children in the country, to me I think that has a lot to do with it.'"

The deteriorating political climate between the U.S. and Russia is believed to be adding to the delays, as is the dramatic population decline (estimated at 700,000 a year) in Russia.

Read more online.

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