People who have decided to adopt a child are often faced with blunt (and sometimes inappropriate) questions. While it's impossible to prepare for every possible question, knowing some of the more common ones can help.

According to the website BellaOnline, the following are five very common questions for adoptive (or about-to-be-adoptive) parents:

#1: Why don't you just have one of your own? It's amazing what they can do now with infertility treatments!
#2: But what if the child doesn't look like you?
#3: What if the birth parents change their mind?
#4: Why in the world are you adopting from that country...Why are you adopting an older child...Why are you adopting a child with special needs?
#5: Isn't it so amazing that you're saving the world this way?

"Its important to understand that many people have honest questions and want to learn more about adoption," wrote Brandii Lacey, BellaOnline's adoption editor. "And, on the flip side, there are those that simply want to argue with you back and forth on the subject of adoption."

It may be frustrating to be questioned about such a personal matter, but answering these types of questions can help people understand your decision and support your family. However, remember that you have the right not to answer any questions that you feel are inappropriate.

Labels: adoptive_parents, preparations, questions

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