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Saturday, March 29, 2008

Benefits of the Hague Convention

It's a long name: the Hague Convention on Protection of Children and Co-Operation in Respect of Intercountry Adoption. Typically referred to simply as The Hague Convention, it's an international policy that goes into effect on April 1st in the United States.
"The convention outlines the process by which a child becomes eligible for adoption and also outlines the processes whereby a family is deemed eligible to adopt a child. This protects children because it ensures that every attempt has been made to keep the child in his or her birth family and birth country. It protects adoptive families, who can be confident that any child they are considering for adoption has been previously designated as eligible for adoption."
Few adoptive families will notice any changes in their adoption process as the convention primarily impacts record-keeping and internal communications between adoption agencies and governmental agencies. Read more at Press-Citizen.com.

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Thursday, March 27, 2008

Doctor Gives Credit to Adoptive Parents

Yvette Martin is on the road to becoming an anesthesiologist and is currently finishing her medical studies at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota. She credits her adoptive parents with giving her the confidence she needed to pursue her dreams.
"Norman and Josephine adopted Yvette when she was just 6 months old. The couple decided to adopt after Josephine had some physical problems that kept her from being able to conceive. They adopted Yvette from out of state and from the moment they saw her they fell completely in love."
Now, as a young adult, Yvette still talks to her parents almost every day, and continues to receive the same love and support she has gotten all her life. Read more at CBS4Denver.com.

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Monday, March 24, 2008

iChooseAdoption Media Campaign Launched

The National Council for Adoption has launched a new campaign aimed at raising awareness of and promoting adoption as a positive, loving option for birthmothers. Floyd & Partners Integrated Brand Communications developed the campaign, which includes radio and television spots, along with outdoor media for billboards.
"We want to increase public understanding and awareness of adoption and create a more pro-adoption culture in which everyone, including women facing unplanned pregnancies, can consider adoption freely without fear, bias, or misunderstanding."
The campaign's theme is "Sometimes choosing adoption is being a good mother," and all of the ads direct readers to the accompanying Web site iChooseAdoption.org. Read more at PRNewswire.com.

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Sunday, March 23, 2008

Open Adoptions Can Have Happy Endings

When Patricia Dischler was 21 years old, pregnant and unwed, she knew an adoption plan was the best choice for her baby. But she also knew that she couldn't just let him go, never knowing if he was healthy or happy, so she insisted on an open adoption.
"Keeping the birthmother in the family has become more common since Dischler made her decision more than 20 years ago. But it doesn't mean the concerns - and subsequent scars - aren't difficult to deal with."


Dischler has recently written a book titled Because I Loved You: A Birthmother's View of Open Adoption chronicling her experiences and offering advice to both birthmothers and adoptive families. Her hope is that the book's content will be encouraging to those involved in or considering an adoption plan. Read more at GreenBayPressGazette.com.

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Friday, March 21, 2008

No Amnesty for Guatemalan Moms

Guatemalan birth mothers who used false identities when placing their babies for adoption will have to face charges, says prosecutor Jaime Tecu. His comments reference an official probe into the Casa Quivira adoption agency that is alleged to have provided birth mothers with false identities so they wouldn't have to get permission from other family members to place their babies for adoption.
"In two of the five alleged false identity cases, the birth mothers assumed the identities of babies who were stillborn two decades ago. Two other mothers stole the identities of living women whom prosecutors later located."
Hanging in the balance are the futures of the women's children, all of whom had been in the process of being adopted. In Guatemala, only single mothers can unilaterally place their babies for adoption. In cases where the biological parents are married, both must agree to the decision, as must the couple's immediate family. Read more at SunTimes.com.

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Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Republic of Congo Lifts Adoption Ban

Three months after a French charity tried to fly a group of children out of Chad, the Republic of Congo has lifted a ban on international adoptions. The ban went into effect on October 31st as a "preventative measure."
"At least one human rights group in Republic of Congo has been calling for action on suspected child trafficking in the country since August. The head of that group, Loamba Moke, said he was glad the government was taking action to assure the safety of adopted children, but called for tougher laws in the prosecution of child trafficking networks."
Workers from the French charity Zoe's Ark have been sentenced to eight years in jail as a result of the incident. Read more at IHT.com.

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Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Another State May Change Adoption Law

Legislators in Connecticut have been presented with a bill that would change disclosure laws related to adoption. The bill would give adult adoptees the option of obtaining their original birth certificate.
"It also would allow birth parents to designate whether they eventually want to be contacted by the child, an intermediary or not at all."
A similar bill was vetoed two years ago by the state's governor, who feared the bill could potentially violate privacy rights of birth parents. Read more at WWLP.com.

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Monday, March 10, 2008

Adoptive Mom Feels Blessed

Denise still remembers the first phone conversation she had with the birth mother of her adopted daughter. She remembers how nervous she was, and she remembers the warnings people gave about adopting a mixed-race baby.
"Again, we didn't care. We had so much love in us that we wanted to share. We made a promise that we would not go the medical route for future children, and instead committed to adopting mixed children so they would share their ethnicity."
Denise and her husband now have three adopted children, and each is considered a blessing. Some say their kids are lucky to have them as parents, but Denise admits that she feels like the lucky one. Read more at DailyRecord.com.

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Friday, March 07, 2008

Colorado Adoption Agencies Scrutinized

The Colorado Department of Human Services will take 60 days to fully review the practices of all licensed adoption agencies operating within the state. The review comes on the heels of an investigation of fraud charges that have been brought against Claar Foundation adoption agency in Boulder.
"Police spokeswoman Sarah Huntley on Friday said investigators are still looking into allegations that Claar officials, including former Erie Trustee Lisa Novak and her husband, Martin Claar, defrauded and stole money from hopeful parents."
The Claar Foundation is one of two adoption agencies that have closed their doors since December, with another planning to close soon as well. The investigation, coupled with the closures, has raised concerns about the financial practices of Colorado agencies. The Department of Human Services plans to make its findings public once the investigation is complete. Read more at DailyCamera.com.

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Wednesday, March 05, 2008

Adoption Decisions Questioned

A judge in Ohio has expressed concern over the fact that teenage girls are able to make adoption plans for their babies without the consent of the teen's parents. His comment was made in connection with a court ruling regarding a Canton teen that is fighting to regain custody of her biological daughter.
"Stephanie Bennett has been fighting to regain custody of her daughter, Evelyn, since 2006, saying she regretted her initial decision. Evelyn was only a few months old at the time."
Bennett has also accused the adoption agency, A Child's Waiting, of urging her to run away so that her parents couldn't interfere with her adoption decision. The agency has denied the charge, but is still under investigation by the Ohio Department of Job and Family Services. Read more at Ohio.com.

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Monday, March 03, 2008

Families Encountering Troubles with Vietnamese Adoptions

From 2003 to 2005, the U.S. government suspended adoption of Vietnamese children, citing corruption in the Vietnam adoption process. Now, as an adoption agreement between Vietnam and the United States is about to expire, families who have nearly completed adoptions are having to fight to get the necessary visas to bring their children home.
"Twenty-one entry visas for children have been rejected in the last two years, according to the State Department. More than half the denials have come since last October, prompting complaints that the department is singling out individual cases to embarrass the Vietnamese government into changing its adoption process."
Two California families have elicited the help of the state's Senators, one of whom has promised to lobby the State Department for approval of the visas. One couple, Tom and Wendy Mills, have been separated off and on for nearly 5 months while Tom has stayed in Hanoi caring for their adopted daughter and waiting for her visa to be approved. Read more at TheDispatch.com.

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