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Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Cookie Money Goes a Long Way

Girl Scout Troup 226 out of Warren, New Jersey has decided to do something unique with their cookie fundraiser money. Rather than spend the money on prizes for the girls, the troop decided collectively to donate some of dollars raised to an orphanage in the Republic of Georgia.
"Troop members met and discussed how to use the money. Among the ideas was one from Clara Citarella, then 7, who suggested donating some of the proceeds to the orphanage from which her family was going to adopt a child... 'When Clara headed to the Republic of Georgia to meet her brother for the first time, giving back to those kids seemed like a great way to honor her family and share a lesson of what others needed.'"
The troop members voted on Clara's and other suggestions and decided to donate money not only to the orphanage, but also the Make-a-Wish Foundation and a local animal shelter. The orphanage donation was also matched by EMK Press, a company owned by troop co-leader Carrie Kitze. Read more at C-N.com.

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Monday, January 28, 2008

New State Law Opens Adoption Records

North Carolina recently passed a state law that allows adults who were adopted as children to get more detailed information about their biological parents and possibly connect with them - if all parties are willing. Though the new law set out general guidelines, responsibility for developing the details falls to each individual county.
"Before the new laws, [Frances] Gallimore [adoptions supervisor for Rowan County] said, an average of two to three adoptees called the department monthly seeing information about their birth parents. Most of them have been people in their 40s and 50s who were facing health challenges and wanted information about their family health history."
Prior to the new law, Social Services departments could only give very general, non-identifying information. The suggested cost for the service has been set at $250, which includes 5 ½ hours of search time, contact with the person (if found) and a report-back to the inquiring party of any information that is discovered. Read more at SalisburyPost.com.

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Friday, January 25, 2008

State to Spend $4M to Boost Adoptions

Two years ago, Indiana introduced a new adoption marketing program that resulted in a dramatic increase in adoptions of troubled children. Now the state intends to add another $4 million program to its existing efforts.
"The new project, focused on finding permanent homes for thousands of Hoosier children taken from their parents by the department and left adrift in foster care, emphasizes reaching out to minority parents through churches and community groups. It is part of an effort to speed up the process of finding safe, permanent homes for children who have been taken from their parents due to neglect or abuse and who cannot return home."
One of the goals of this new campaign is to decrease the number of foster care children who, when they turn 18, "age out" of the system without having a permanent home. Read more at IndyStart.com.

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Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Adoptive Dad's Story Corrected

Gary and Cindy Stocklaufer gained national attention when Gary claimed that his weight caused a judge to deny his petition to adopt a baby. Jackson County (Missouri) Circuit Court Judge John R. O'Malley made his court order regarding the case public on Tuesday. His order states that the couple was denied the adoption because they violated adoption laws.
"Under Missouri law, it is a felony to bring a child into the state for adoption without getting a court order first. The Stocklaufers failed to do that, O'Malley said, but the judge still agreed to award them temporary custody."
It's not common practice for judges to make court orders available to the public, but Judge O'Malley said he made an exception because of all the publicity surround this particular case. Gerald McGonagle, the couple's attorney, agrees that the initial ruling against the couple was "not totally" based on Gary's weight.

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Monday, January 21, 2008

Costs Hinders Potential Adoption Event

With the Olympics taking place in China this year, many adoption agencies thought now was a great time to arrange for families with adopted Chinese children to pay a return visit to the country. They could re-introduce their children to Chinese culture and experience the Olympics at the same time. Unfortunately, extremely inflated costs have stopped most families from making the trip.
"[Jane] Liedtke, who considered and ultimately abandoned the idea of organizing an Olympics tour for adoptive families, said rapacious pricing appears to be the norm. This led to a fear on her part, given China's still-nascent service culture, that some bus or hotel operator would drop her group at the last minute if someone else came through the door with a higher offer."
As an alternative, Our Chinese Daughters Foundation organized an event of its own, complete with a live satellite feed of the Beijing opening ceremonies. At a cost of just $375 to $675 for one adult and one child, it's far more realistic for more families.

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Friday, January 18, 2008

Kansas Adoption Requirements Change

An adoption bill that had already passed in the Kansas state House has now been endorsed by the Senate Judiciary Committee and will be sent to the full Senate for a vote. The bill amends adoption agency requirements.
"The bill says anybody advertising about dealing in adoptions must include whether they are licensed and if so, in what profession and who issued the license. The bill also says people can't promise a pregnant woman such things as child placement through adoption for using their services."
Though these kinds of issues have not been widespread in Kansas, they do occur. If the measure is passed, Kansas will join 17 other states that have similar laws.

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Thursday, January 17, 2008

Couple Shares Wisdom from Adopting Teens

When Josh and Kaleb first came to the Eilers family, they were quite and suspicious. But now they realize that they're a permanent part of the family and they've begun to come out of their shells.
"Their parents are Rich and Tracy Eilers. The couple doesn't claim to be experts, but they've learned a lot about adopting teenagers. 'Things we take for granted. Standing around making brownies in the kitchen,' Tracy said. 'It really is the simple things. It's not the fancy things, it's not the money, it's not the going and spending. It's just the doing, and going together.'"
Rich and Tracy admit that there are unique challenges associated with adopting teenagers. There are "gaps" that need filling. But over time, they're being filled, and Josh and Kaleb are enjoying their forever family.

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Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Complicated Adoption Continues

On Monday, an 8-month-old baby that has been at the center of an unusual adoption case was placed back in the custody of the couple who wants to adopt him. Baby Max's adoption was temporarily halted due to legal complications on the part of the adoptive parents, Gary and Cindy Stocklaufer.
"They lost custody in July for failing to obtain a court order before bringing the boy to Missouri and because an investigation had not been completed."
Initially, Gary Stocklaufer claimed he and his wife lost custody because he was obese; he weighed over 500 pounds at the time. He has since undergone surgery and lost about 200 pounds. The Stocklaufers' attorney called the decision "bittersweet" because an equally loving and qualified couple would have to relinquish custody of Max to the Stocklaufers.

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Sunday, January 13, 2008

Adoption Ads in Spanish

According to the Administration for Children and Families, approximately 15 percent of foster care children waiting to be adopted are Hispanic. With that figure in mind, the Ad Council, in partnership with Revolucion Hispanic Communications, has created the agency's first Spanish language public service announcement for AdoptUsKids.
"The new adoption ads were distributed to more than 28,000 media outlets nationwide on Wednesday, December 12 through donated media space. The multi-media program includes Spanish-language television, radio, and print public service announcement (PSAs) issuing a national call-to-action in the messaging itself."
The tag for the campaign; "Completa una vida. Completa la tuya. (Complete a life. Complete your own.)" focuses on the personal fulfillment parents often get when they adopt a child.

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Friday, January 11, 2008

The Adoption Quandary

Writer Elizabeth Larsen has been personally affected by the recent changes to the Guatemalan adoption processes; her adopted daughter is from the country that has radically reformed its adoption system.
"The new law, passed last month, requires the creation of a centralized government authority to oversee adoptions and mandates that any private orphanages, such as those run by charities, be registered."
The new law also shuffles priorities, favoring family preservation first, followed by adoption by relatives, then domestic adoption. International adoptions will now be considered a "last resort".

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Wednesday, January 09, 2008

New Questions

Pat Locke and Ian Miller have been married for about ten years. During that time, their decisions have largely revolved around themselves. But now, on the eve of their adoption of two girls from Kyrgyzstan, they realize the focus of their decisions will have to change.
"In the new year, the couple, who live in Hudson [Massachusetts], must decide whether to relocate, where to send their new daughters to school, and how to juggle work and child care, to name just a few items on their to-decide list."
Though the decisions will be difficult, Locke and Miller are eager to start this new chapter of their lives. Miller has admitted that he's also eager to get past the first few months, which he knows will be the hardest for the girls.

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Saturday, January 05, 2008

Costs Hinders Potential Adoption Event

With the Olympics taking place in China this year, many adoption agencies thought now was a great time to arrange for families with adopted Chinese children to pay a return visit to the country. They could re-introduce their children to Chinese culture and experience the Olympics at the same time. Unfortunately, extremely inflated costs have stopped most families from making the trip.
"[Jane] Liedtke, who considered and ultimately abandoned the idea of organizing an Olympics tour for adoptive families, said rapacious pricing appears to be the norm. This led to a fear on her part, given China's still-nascent service culture, that some bus or hotel operator would drop her group at the last minute if someone else came through the door with a higher offer."
As an alternative, Our Chinese Daughters Foundation organized an event of its own, complete with a live satellite feed of the Beijing opening ceremonies. At a cost of just $375 to $675 for one adult and one child, it's far more realistic for more families.

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Thursday, January 03, 2008

Topeka, Kansas Family Has New Daughter

After twenty months of paperwork, home studies, and what seemed like endless waiting, Chris and Dianna Brodine have a new addition to their family. One November 16th, Dianna returned home from Vietnam with their new 11-month-old daughter, Phoebe.
"Brodine said she and her husband chose to adopt from Vietnam when they heard of a new program through Dillon International, Inc... Although the adoption was officially recognized in Vietnam after the Giving and Receiving Ceremony, Phoebe won't be able to apply for U.S. citizenship until after three post-placement visits by Dillon International officials."
Dianna said the experience was an emotional roller coaster, but has been amazing. She also says that she and her husband would eventually like to adopt another baby from Vietnam.

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Tuesday, January 01, 2008

An End to Painful Delays

Couples across the United States have been anxiously waiting for their adoptions of Russian children to be completed. The waiting, for some, began over a year ago when Russia tightened its accreditation rules, requiring adoption agencies to reapply for their accreditation. Now many of those couples are finally seeing some light at the end of the tunnel.
"Gladney [Center adoption agency] regained its accreditation this month, and officials say they hope that local adoptions of Russian children will soon resume."
A total of 16 adoptions agencies have been reaccredited so far. According to a spokesperson from the Gladney Center, their new certificate has no expiration date - an indication that another stoppage of adoption processes is unlikely.

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