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Friday, September 28, 2007

Love Knows No Borders

When Kara and Jordan Crockett went on a mission trip to Nigeria, they didn't expect to meet a little boy who would steal their hearts; but they did. Now, a year later, 5-year-old Job will trade his Nigerian orphanage for the Crockett's home in Virginia Beach.
"The first time the adoptive father-to-be saw little Job, he said 'He stood out because [the other kids] always want to be in pictures but he would always stand in the corner. I told Kara it was my goal to make that little boy laugh.'"
Laugh he did. And he felt such a connection with the Crocketts that he got up, by himself, to walk from his orphanage and say good-bye on the morning they left for the States. Kara returned eight months later and was greeted so warmly by Job that she knew she and her husband would be adopting him.

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Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Wide Horizons Appoints Director of African Program

Wide Horizons for Children, a non-profit adoption and child welfare agency, has named Dr. Tsegaye Berhe as Director for African Programs. He will be responsible for developing and implementing adoption and related services for Wide Horizons throughout Africa.
"'Without adoption or sponsorship, Africa's children face a grim future,' said Dr. Tsegaye Berhe, WHFC's Director for African Programs. 'Being able to give hundreds of Ethiopian children a hopeful future makes me truly happy, but the need extends beyond Ethiopia. I am hopeful we can soon make an impact on the lives of many needy children throughout Africa.'"
Dr. Tsegaye has over 30 years of child welfare experience. During his time overseeing WHFC's efforts in Ethiopia, over 400 children were adopted and another 720 were sponsored.

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Monday, September 24, 2007

Nepali Government Urged to Resolve Deadlock

In June, the Nepali government suspended adoptions in response to severe criticism over its adoption system and practices. Today, diplomats from six nations urged the government to quickly resolve the deadlock that has left hundreds of families "in limbo".
"Diplomatic officials said the move left plans by some 358 foreign families to adopt children from the Himalayan country up in the air. 'It's a very emotional problem and it's becoming a humanitarian issue for these families,' French Ambassador Gilles-Henry Garault told AFP."
Nepal's minister for women, Khadga Bahadur Biswokarma, said new adoption regulations have been drafted and will be sent to the cabinet in the next few days. She was unable, however, to give a timeframe for implementation of the new rules.

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Friday, September 21, 2007

From China with Love

Six-year-old Paige (her American name) lived her entire life in a Chinese orphanage. She was considered "unadoptable" because of congenital ear defect, but it didn't stop Eric and Beth Hart from adopting her.
"Today, she giggles on her Delta Township family's trampoline, waiting for her new father to bounce her and her new sister with one mighty jump. She counts in English "one, two, three, four" to describe how many more times she'd like her dad to catapult her into the air."
The Hart's adoption happened quickly. They received their acceptance letter just six months after starting their paperwork. Paige has now been with her new family for a month.

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Thursday, September 20, 2007

Foundation Helps Foster Children get Permanent Homes

The Dave Thomas Foundation has awarded a generous grant to the Children's Home of the Wyoming Conference. The grant will allow staffer Linda Pipkin to devote herself full-time to the business of finding adoptive parents for the children in the home.
"She'll look first at foster families who have grown close to a child in their home. Maybe adoption is a possibility? She'll also determine which adults may have been significant in a child's life at one point or another. Perhaps those adults are able to commit to adopting the child. Actively recruiting families, she hopes, will result in more stable situations for those 89 children who desperately need stability and permanency in their lives."
The grant comes from a program called Wendy's Wonderful Kids. The program's specific vision is to help foster care and adoption agencies hire full-time recruiters who can devote all their time to matching children with adoptive families.

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Wednesday, September 19, 2007

Adopting an HIV+ Child

Margaret Fleming adopted her first HIV+ child in 1997. After visiting an AIDS orphanage in 2002, she was inspired to found Chances by Choice, the nation's only nonprofit foundation exclusively devoted to placing HIV+ children with adoptive families.
"The organization acts as liaison between source agencies that identify children with HIV abroad and families in the United States looking to adopt. So far, 27 kids in Asia, Africa and Central America have received approval from their governments to be adopted..."
A positive HIV test at birth isn't necessarily a death sentence. There is a chance that the HIV antibodies will dissipate; something many potential adoptive parents don't know. Read more at MSNBC.com.

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Monday, September 17, 2007

How to do it Fast - Part 2

In the world of adoptions, the dossier is the collection of paperwork that's required by a foreign government in an international adoption. Dossiers typically include medical letters, homestudy paperwork, background checks, and reference letters. While it may seem overwhelming to some, this adoptive parent offers still more advice on how to complete this step quickly.
"Read directions carefully, and whenever possible, use example letters. Some agencies send you example letters or specific recommended wordings for your documents. If your agency does this, use the examples they give. This will help get things right the first time."
Don't be afraid to be politely pushy when requesting reference letters or paperwork from government agencies. It is possible to tactfully hurry people along so you're not waiting any longer than necessary.

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Friday, September 14, 2007

How to do it Fast - Part 1

Though not all adoptive parents are in a hurry to complete the adoption process, most would like to have it completed sooner rather than later. An experienced adoptive parent offers helpful suggestions for decreasing the amount of time it takes to bring an adopted child home.
"Get an understanding for which parts of the process you have control over and which parts you do not. For example, how long it takes to prepare the dossier is very much in the hands of the adoptive parents. Some take weeks. Some even take months. We accomplished ours in a matter of hours (less than a weekend). That is a part of the process we could control. Other things, such as court closures and other nuances of the legal systems in our country and others, are completely out of our hands. Figure out which parts you have some control over and get them done as fast as possible."
Other suggestions include reading directions thoroughly and following them completely, sending paperwork via FedEx or UPS so the package can be tracked, and keeping color copies of everything so that if an original gets lost it can be easily replaced.

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Wednesday, September 12, 2007

TB Infections Rising Among Adoptees

A recent study lead by Dr. Anna Mandalakas of the Rainbow Babies and Children's Hospital in Ohio found that TB infections among international adoptees have risen dramatically in the last 20 years. The rate of infection was also found to increase steadily as children got older.
"TB rates among the children in the American study ranged from nearly 15 percent in adoptees from Eastern Europe, 14 percent from Russian and 12 percent from Korea to between 12.5 percent and 11 percent in India, China and South America, 8.3 percent in Central America and the Caribbean and 2.8 percent in Southeast Asia."
Though a child can be infected with mycobacterium tuberculosis may not develop an active disease, the study's authors still recommend that adopted children be tested. Children often become infected if they spend their early years in an orphanage.

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Monday, September 10, 2007

Cross-Cultural Parenting

Cross-cultural and international adoptions have increased dramatically over the last several years. An estimated 20,000 children are adopted each year from places like China, Russia, and Guatemala. Once the adoption process is complete, the next challenge for these families is learning how to integrate different cultures into the familial DNA.
"'They need to understand that race and ethnicity still matter,' [Judy] Stigger says. 'Love is not going to be enough. Where your child came from is part of them, whether that's a neighborhood in Chicago or an orphanage in China.'"
Stigger has experienced this first-hand as she's raised her adopted daughter Kathy, an African-American. Having friends with similar ethnic backgrounds, celebrating ethnic or culture-specific holidays, and learning some of the language if the adopted child is from a foreign country are all ways to help the child understand and appreciate where she’s from and help the family become truly multiracial. Read more at SunTimes.com.

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Friday, September 07, 2007

Sharing Your Child's Birth Story

Authors Susan TeBos and Carissa Woodwyk have released a book titled Before You Were Mine: Discovering Your Adopted Child's Lifestory. The book is intended to help adoptive parents piece together their child's story from birth to present.
"The authors... define it as a 'book of memories about a child's life prior to adoption... a story book that acknowledges, celebrates, explains, and honors the life of an adoptee prior to adoption. It gathers the bits and pieces of our adopted children's lives before they joined our families and gracefully organizes it all - words, pictures, documents, and photos - in the form of a story.'"
TeBos and Woodwyk hope the book will help adoptive parents honor their adopted children's stories and give them creative ways to discover and share their stories. Read more at AdoptionBlogs.Typepad.com.

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Wednesday, September 05, 2007

Sharing Advice and Experiences

There are a lot of books and articles that offer advice about trans-racial adoption. But the best advice comes from other adoptive parents.
"Parents know the good stuff. They know the tricks of the trade. They know how to get a homestudy and dossier done in record time and they know tricks to help survive the wait. They know what to do, how to react, what to say, where to go, how you feel, what is normal, how to prepare and how to handle the ins and outs of adoption."
With that in mind, Erin H, the moderator of a trans-racial adoption blog is asking adoptive parents to email her with advice for parents who are considering or in the process of adopting. She'll be compiling the information to post to her blog over the next several weeks. Read more at TransRacial.AdoptionBlogs.com.

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Monday, September 03, 2007

Adoption is Within the Reach of Many

The news is filled lately with celebrity adoption stories. The stories can make "average" families feel as though adoption is out of reach for them. But adoption is a viable option for nearly anyone.
"Often people say that they do not think they can afford to adopt. Initially the cost seems a bit overwhelming to many folks, but once it is broken down into manageable parts, it is doable for most working families..."
Income requirements are "liberal" for adoptive families, and substantial tax credits are also available. In addition, adoption is no longer limited to the traditional two-parent family but has opened up to single parents and - in some cases - gay and lesbian couples. Read more at Times-Standard.com.

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