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Wednesday, May 30, 2007

Domestic vs. International Adoption

Laurie and Bill White have adopted both domestically and internationally. And while there are many similarities, they cite some important differences, too.
"There are some big differences between domestic and international adoption. Bill says there is a lot more paperwork adopting overseas. 'I mean, they send us a tomb filled with paperwork that has to be done over 6 or 8 month period. And everything is time sensitive, too.'"
Though the overall time frame is similar between domestic and international adoptions, the time between getting "the call" and getting the baby is often much shorter for people who adopt domestically. The White's had picked up their son within 24 hours of getting their call. Read more online.

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Monday, May 28, 2007

Living on the Fault Line

Independent filmmaker Jeff Farber is releasing a new documentary next week titled "Living on the Fault Line". The film documents the trans-racial adoptions of several Vermont families, and follows them through their days - both the good and the bad.
"Parents are forthcoming in the film about their children's awareness of race - noticing at a young age that they look different from other family members. They also talk about comments related to race which cross the line of reasonable matters. One mother chokes up talking about woman she didn't even know inquiring about whether she would get her Chinese daughter's eyes 'fixed'."
The families share more than just their struggles. Precious, memorable moments are caught on film as well. Family dinners, trips to local fairs and festivals, and nights out at the Vermont Symphony Orchestra capture the joy and closeness of the film's subjects. Read more at TimesArgus.com.

Like children of trans-racial adoption, teens with Asperger's Syndrome often face problems such as social isolation, inability to be a teen, sexual issues, criminal activity, school failures, depression, and acting out. Learn more at YourLittleProfessors.com.

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Saturday, May 26, 2007

Plenty of Adoption Options

Couples in Boulder County, Colorado have several adoption options available to them. One that the county is trying to draw more attention to is a program called Fost-Adopt, in which couples take in children who may or may not be available for adoption.
"Typically, biological parents stripped of custody have a year to straighten out drug problems or mental health issues and convince a judge their home is a safe place for kids. If they can't, the child's foster parents have the chance to adopt him permanently."
This can be a difficult option, because there's no guarantee that the child a couple bonds with will stay with them long-term. Of the approximately 44 kids who are placed in foster care every month, only five of those become available for adoption. Still, County officials want couples who are considering adoption to be aware of this option, as they could potentially provide a safe, temporary home for kids who badly need it, until the right circumstances allow them to adopt a child. Read more at LongmontFYI.com.

Children and teens with problems with alchol and drug abuse can get help at residential treatment centers like Island View. Learn more about the ways Island View can help teens with substance abuse issues.

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Thursday, May 24, 2007

Operation Babylift Adoptees Posthumously Honor President Ford

In 1975, President Ford authorized a program called Operation Babylift, which evacuated 4,000 orphans from South Vietnam. About 2,500 of those children were adopted by U.S. families and several of them gathered together in Grand Rapids, Michigan to honor the late president by posthumously awarding him the Heather Constance Noone Memorial Award for extraordinary actions.
"Ford's son, Steven, was touched by the ceremony, in which a painting of Ford cradling an infant was presented to the museum."
Steven also accepted the Memorial award on his father's behalf.

Read more at MLive.com.

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Operation Babylift Adoptees Posthumously Honor President Ford

In 1975, President Ford authorized a program called Operation Babylift, which evacuated 4,000 orphans from South Vietnam. About 2,500 of those children were adopted by U.S. families and several of them gathered together in Grand Rapids, Michigan to honor the late president by posthumously awarding him the Heather Constance Noone Memorial Award for extraordinary actions.
"Ford's son, Steven, was touched by the ceremony, in which a painting of Ford cradling an infant was presented to the museum."
Steven also accepted the Memorial award on his father's behalf.

Read more at MLive.com.

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Monday, May 21, 2007

Language and Domestic Adoption

Most people think language is only an issue if a child is adopted from a foreign country. But even domestic children can have a speech delay or a thick accent that makes them hard to understand.
"Children with speech delays can find it very frustrating to try and communicate with others, and especially when they are in a new environment and around people who are not used to their speech, it can be challenging."
Speech delays can be caused by neglect, exposure to drugs or alcohol in utero, or traumatic events. A thick accent (if, for example, the child is from the south) can also make language and communication difficult. Read more at AdoptionBlogs.com.

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Thursday, May 17, 2007

Who Loves You, Guides You

The Times West Virginian newspaper had a Mother's Day contest in which it asked people to submit letters about their mothers. One of the entries came from Melanie Carpenter, who wrote about her mother Rosemary.
"My mother is a very special lady. She has been a mentor and inspiration and a blessing to me for the past 50 years. Although she is up in years, she is the one I can still go to for guidance, comfort and love. Let me explain why she is so special, see I was chosen by her. I am an adopted child."
Rosemary is also mother to two other adopted children, and has housed more than 20 foster children. Melanie recalls all the times her mother has been there, and is still there for her and her children, guiding them on the "right road through life." Read more at TimesWV.com.

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Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Those Hoping to Adopt from Russia Still Waiting

The Russian government recently reported that American adoption countries who wanted to operate in Russia would have to apply to be re-accredited or re-registered. But the application must pass through five different government ministries in a process that's so poorly organized it's left many hopeful families waiting indefinitely.

"'From the beginning everybody was very honest that things aren't that great in Russia, but just stick with it,' [Kathleen] Dorrian said. 'I think they want to keep these children in the country, to me I think that has a lot to do with it.'"

The deteriorating political climate between the U.S. and Russia is believed to be adding to the delays, as is the dramatic population decline (estimated at 700,000 a year) in Russia.

Read more online.

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Sunday, May 13, 2007

Should Adoption Listings Include Photos?

Canadians are trying to decide whether or not pictures should be included in on-line listings of children who are available for adoption. While a final decision hasn't been made yet, there are strong opinions on both sides.

"The majority opinion of those participating in the focus groups made up of professionals, parents and caregivers favored photo listing, although they felt there should be certain restrictions."

Those who opposed the idea expressed concerns about child trafficking, and making birth parents feel as though their children were being "marketed." Read more online.

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Thursday, May 10, 2007

Iowa KidsNet

The state of Iowa served over 11,500 kids last year in the Iowa foster care system. This year, the Department of Human Services wants and increased focus on foster care and adoption, and so, they've embarked on new initiative called KidsNet.
"This new network consists of almost a dozen agencies. Four Oaks in Cedar Rapids is the lead agency in this new effort to recruit and retain resource families who are interested in foster care and adoption of Iowa children."
There are currently over 5,000 children in Iowa that need either a foster or permanent adoptive home. Read more at IowaKidsNet.com.

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Monday, May 07, 2007

Court Decision could affect Other "Wrongful Adoption" Cases

A court in New York has determined that an adoption agency that withheld medical information could be liable for the medical expenses incurred by the adoptive couple as a result of the misinformation. Louse Wise Services, Inc., which is no longer in business, failed to disclose to Arthur and Barbara Ross that parents of the baby they were about to adopt had suffered from serious mental health problems.
"... problems including schizophrenia, for which the son was later diagnosed, according to court records. The New York City couple said that dealing with the behavior without knowing the diagnosis led to the end of their marriage, their careers and to clinical depression for both of them."
At the time of the adoption, the 1960's, mental health issues were believed to be environmental, not inherited. A representative from the adoption agency says that's why the baby's medical history was never fully disclosed. Read more at NewsDay.com.

Teenagers experiencing emotional and/or behavioral issues due to adoption and just being a teenager can benefit from a specialty boarding school like Mount Bachelor Academy. Mount Bachelor offers counseling and therapy to mend relationships between teens and families.

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Saturday, May 05, 2007

Standard Register Adoption Policy Garners National Recognition

Standard Register is an Ohio-based leading provider of document and print management services. But it recently gained recognition as a leader in something else: providing a "beneficial and comprehensive adoption policy" for its employees.
"Established in January 2006, Standard Register's policy on adoption provides employees with up to $4,000 of financial assistance as well as up to four weeks of paid leave. These benefits apply to both female and male employees."
The Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption ® recently recognized the company, ranking it third among Ohio-based workplaces and fourth on a nationwide list of companies that are considered "adoption friendly". Read more online.

Adoption, drugs and teens can sometimes go together. Learn more about teens and drugs from the Adolescent Substance Abuse Knowledge Base.

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Thursday, May 03, 2007

North Carolina Adoption Laws Could Change

Some North Carolina legislators and others are proposing new laws that would allow adoptees to access their original birth certificates when they reach adulthood. The propositions are receiving mixed reviews, with some people being concerned that the birth mothers rights would be violated should such a law take effect.
"[Roberta] MacDonald said one of the main reasons for the law would be to allow adoptees to have a family medical history. She said the law would not lead to a mass of adoptees bothering birth parents, citing other states with more lenient adoption laws."
The law would include an option for birth parents to fill out forms stating whether or not they ever wish to be contacted by the child, and would allow the birth parent to submit updated medical information as well.

Read more at NewBernSJ.com.

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Tuesday, May 01, 2007

Points to Ponder with Domestic Adoption

International adoptions have increased dramatically in popularity over the last several years. Many people, however, still prefer domestic adoptions. Not only are they far less expensive, but they often take less time. There are some things to consider with regards to domestic adoptions.
"Know the laws in your state, and the state the agency is in (if it is an out-of-state agency). Every state has different laws regarding when a birthmother can relinquish her rights and at what point they become irreversible. Some states have a waiting period in between when a mother can sign relinquishments and when they are effective, and during that waiting period, the mother is fully able to change her mind."
You should also know the laws regarding the birth father's rights, whether open adoption is allowed or required, and what fees are associated with the adoption. Read more online.

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